Don't you put your trust in man when you go to the doctor or drive your vehicle?
Yes , I do , but when it comes to my salvation and the word of God , I do not . Now , there are a handful of bible teachers , and pastors I have found to be spot on over the years that I do trust.
I think their brain made them experience something or they were a nut case.
Now, here I would say you are hoping that is the case . You have maybe heard a scientist say that this is just the brain dying. I also have heard this. But lets remember these are men that fight God and creation tooth and nail, and feel that they have to explain everything from a non - God point of view. I would say to you do your own research on negative near death experiences. Its amazing how similar they are from people of different countries, ages, and walks of life.
Sending people to hell is not very nice
Would you, if you were God, send Adolf Hitler to hell, or let him have everlasting life for billions of years in paradise ?
I wonder why he cares whether or not I deny him because I never see or talk to him.
Paul says in Romans ( I believe , or Corinthians ) that God has shown every man his works in nature and in people, and we basically have no excuse to know he is there . We cannot see God of course, and that, I think, is his plan , how could we seek God, and have free will to chose him, if he appeared to us , and to everyone in the world ? He wants us to seek him. And when you do , you will find him . Its very hard to understand God , without knowing what he wants and doesnt want from us. I cannot stress enough how important it is to know the bible, and I have a long way to go, but I read some every day .