Hi! Christian behavior needs to see no human being as an enemy. If you need proof of that from our own teachings I can furnish that, but for now I'll assume you would rather be spared the quotes.
Even if Christian behaviour needs to see no human enemy, human behaviour does. Us vs. them, and the ingroup vs. the outgroup, the righteous vs. the wicked.
Does that mean that C's have not tortured, maimed and killed other devout and Faithful C's, over petty squabbles? Does that mean C's don't treat people wrongly, w/ either no good reason or reasons that really aren't good? Does that mean that repentance flips some switch on the back of our head that insures we never sin again?
Of course not. But perhaps if you were armed with the knowledge that the only flesh a C wrestles with is their own, you might be more effective in the types of interactions you seem to be complaining about in your OP. (Btw, my statement here does not address a C fulfilling duties as a soldier)
The study I presented earlier, found
here, says that the anti-atheist mentality is not a mere lapse of judgment, or lack of awareness, but a persistent negative belief of a group of people, which is defended by its adherents. In a shorter word: "hate." And this is the majority of people in a nation that self-identifies as a "Christian Nation." This isn't simply weak flesh. This is being taught. It is part of a belief system.
Again, I'm going back to my Star Trek buddy. I am not getting involved in the battle of whether Kirk is better than Picarde, and I'm not going to lecture a Trekkie on dark matter energy sources (even if I knew of such things, which I don't). I'm not a Trekkie, and I'm not a Christian. I am not going to lecture these people on their belief. When we start criticizing Christian actions or attitudes using the Bible, we're accused of mocking them, or undermining their faith. Afterall, they don't follow the Bible, they follow what their preacher teaches them about the Bible.
Ok, so we live in a society that has advanced past the need for basic moral instruction. Do you not realize the Bible itself has been foundational to the process? I really don't see how you could miss that, unless you've allowed the historic revisionism of our current educational system(s) to somehow convince you that books written about our founding era are more valid than what our FF's themselves said. which is all available at your County seat, in the Law library.
Not only that, the Bible directly contributed the beliefs and principles of the Enlightenment Age, spearheaded by Sir Isaac Newton which lead to our present boom of Scientific discovery, as well as modern atheism. In fact, Newton himself is often credited as the Grandfather of modern atheism as he was the one who declared that we should be able to find scientific evidence of God.
I can say that the Bible all influenced these men. But ultimately the core principles are hardly unique to Christianity or the Bible. The golden rule is also a part of the Baghavad Gita, the Book of the Dead, the Tao te Ching, and are found in ancient Egyptian, Indian, and Native Indian relics. Honoring God, and choosing God is reflected in ancient Roman beliefs. The principles of democracy and freedom are lifted directly from the ancient Greeks. Even Newton's search for knowledge, which was brought about by his search for God, is found in the teachings of Plato, Socrates, Hippocrates, and others.
These aren't principles that were discovered in the Bible, or in Christianity. These are principles that reflected a period of greater philosophical understanding, and awareness of morality among mankind. The Bible merely reflects values, ideals, and ideas, it does not bear absolute truth.
So I can say that I accept that the Bible reflects some positive ideals, and values, but I don't have to give it any more value than the Harry Potter series, the Baghavad Gita, the Tao te Ching, the Harry Potter Series, or the Lord of the Rings. All of which reflect some positive ideals and values.
But I'm not going to look at the events at the Bible and take them as literal truth, just as I do not for the Baghavad Gita, the Tao te Ching (not a great example), Harry Potter, or the Lord of the Rings.
While I can't agree with that, the important point here is you seem to have a faulty notion that C is following directions in a book.
It's not. (Just so you know) That's legalism, which stops C dead in it's tracks.
Well, no. What I said is that Christians are following the directions, and teachings of their preachers, who can twist the Bible to justify pretty much anything. And before you say "they're not true Christians!" I will pre-counter with "Kirk and Picarde."
But then perhaps you'd answer the question I posed. Taking the holy books out of the equation, how would you demonstrate that your knowledge of God is superior to that of a Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Mormon or Scientologist? For that matter, how would you demonstrate that your knowledge of God is superior to mine?
No, I don't think we actually agree. I'm claiming that I cannot fault God with anything because I cannot know that God exists. It's like blaming Santa Claus for not bringing me a Christmas gift this year.
I understand your mindset here very well, but Spirit does not co-operate with our test tubes, labs, or other repeatable experiments. Different rules apply. At the same time, my "proof," has limited (or no) value to you. I do accept that and actually, all across CF I see more C's accepting this simple wisdom.
But then Christians are not allowed to get upset at us because we do not believe. And to answer your likely follow-up statement: Yes. Look at my signature to see what they think of us. Look at the link above to see how far that spreads.
I think your interaction w/ believers can do a lot of good, for what it's worth. And while the phrase "Jesus Loves you" meant approx nothing to me for over 10 years of being radically saved - Jesus Loves you, and so do I.
But you know what? I don't interpret that phrase the way you do. I think that's something Christians say because they are commanded to say it. Christians seem to love others, like a miser loves money. It's a commodity that gets you what you want.
I'm sorry, but I have never seen any indication of anything else. Those guys in my signature, I challenged a few of them, and oh, the love atheists, we're just the enemy of their God. And Shirley Phelps-Roper? She loves gays. She just claims that God hates them.
So, whenever a Christian claims to love everyone because he is commanded to, I call shenanigans.