Oh my goodness!! Flynmonkie, that is awful!!

Well, you are to be commended for your restraint. I'd have been sorely tempted to belt the guy. It is unbelievable and inexcusable the way some people behave under the auspices of faith. It's amazing how often I feel like I have to apologize for believers...
I see this so often. I think it is the area I live in or something. God Hates this or that yada yada.. UGH!
Solomon wrote of the seven sins God truly hates, I figure if people dont get that first and foremost, they have no business directing others.
I think apologizing is part of it. I think my reaction is apology enough for those who have experienced this sort of hurt by other Christians. I usually just tell people that these actions are the antithesis of what we are taught.
This is not the first time I have experienced this, I think God gave me these experiences at a young age so that I could be sensitive to those who suffer from misconstrued scripture. It really kept me away from God for awhile. But He never left me. I had to go a few places first before I got it, but I did.
Trust me,that small vein of Texas blood feels like tagging some in the eye; it is certainly not me that keeps me restrained! Lets just say I spend a lot of time in prayers!

Nothing riles me worse than seeing the good news turn to bad out of some privileged selfishness. I usually try to understand that some may have some growing to do, been there, done that and will continue to do so. This anger usually comes where there is someone that can quote you a verse in a second to tell you what ails ya, or what will help you, yet at the same time experience some dissonance about connecting them? Like, your going to hell, or You "might" not be one of the
elect, But God loves you and wants you to seek Him anyway, just in case. Blah!. I think that churches should be preaching more about humility before correction. I don't see much of that, even in my own denomination. Also, work out your OWN salvation, before meddling in someone elses etc. Worse yet, teaching we should be revoking choices from people that God himself has given -- one way or another. Lets not forget about the obvious, the difference between Just War, and justifying it!
I ask God to take this sensitivity to this away or at least help me to be nicer about it all, nothing is happening.

I guess that He will keep my mouth shut when needed, or shut it for me in other ways if He wants it shut. Meanwhile, if I see it, I speak it.
