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so back to the topic at hand......TURNOFFS lol

Turnoffs:

MIND GAMES...I HATE WHEN GUYS PLAY MIND GAMES LOL i dont play them on you dont play them on me lol I graduated from HS like over 3 years ago and i left the mind game mumbo jumbo in the walls of my high school. and that is where they will stay! lol
 
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Maybe it is just me.

When she can't give me the time of day. As others stated honousity, which is huge for me.

Had one girl lie to me multiple times and it was hard to forgive her. Like sheesh just say your not intrested instead of leading me on in web of deceit.

I agree with you there.
 
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Liars, and guys that play video games in excess (anything over a couple hours a week)

Only a few hours a week? I'd die! :p I game a lot but I don't let it interfere with my personal life and other things that need to be done.
 
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The key is that you both share a common interest. Just like a wife of a baseball player likes to watch her husband perform on the field, a wife of a gamer likes to watch him play. And it goes around back again so you have to enjoy watching her play games.

Sure, there is more to life than video games, but when you live in the country there isn't much else to do than watch nature then you have to have a hobby.

Finally, when you make a video game. Nothing tells a girl gamer that you love her like giving her special gifts in the video game that you programmed just for her!

Aworkinprogress: The key about video games is that they cost next to nothing to play, whereas gas costs a lot. To get more evangelicism bang for my buck, I think video games are a key component of my life.

If I had the resources or any idea on how to preach to random people, I'd be doing it for sure. Until someone gives me a good idea on what I should be doing next, I'll just stick with cyber-evangelicism. Making a video game that draws people to you is a good way to give them Jesus. Just like if I excercise such domination in the competitive video game field, it draws people to you. I used to be famous online for my gaming, but I didn't know God existed so it was sorta a waste. Now that I know God exists, if I can regain my fame then I can use it as a tool to draw more people closer to God. The biggest key is that God has warned me(twice) to be focused on Jesus in all my dealings with video games. I'm cool with that because I'm a total fanatical zealot for Jesus.

It depends on if the game is a solo play game or if its an online game with a monthly fee.
 
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I'm sorry but with lots of brothers, uncles and cousins, I was taught how to spit. I don't spit randomly whenever I feel the need like most males do, but when my roommates and I had a spitting contest off the balcony in Bible College (we were aiming for a palm tree) lets just say I won. Eww. I know, but it was fun.
 
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Not to distract from the spitting conversation but Im going to give my answer to the OP.

Major turn offs for me include rudeness, especially rudeness to someone who lacks the ability to defend themselves, I find that bad character for anyone. I also don't tend to like guys who are arrogant or extremely proud of their many accomplishments. Another would be a guy who spends too much time caring about their looks (although Im friends with many guys like this I would never be able to see myself with one). It makes me feel self conscious so that's a turn off for me. Physical turn offs would be poor hygeine including shaggy hair (get a haircut and get it over with for real).
 
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Happy 4th of July
 
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That did make me laugh to read your spitting post. You always get an "A" if you make someone laugh heartily.

good answer - you get an "A" - Women can spit delicately if they have to, can't they?

Yes they can. And I'm glad that I made you laugh!!!
 
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