Why is some Staff afraid of IIDB?

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Have you seen it? Or are you relying on hearsay from sockpuppets?

I believe I may have seen a bit of it a couple of years ago. I'm relying on discernment.

This is not directed to you EBTT.. but let's try to use as few 'you's and yours' as possible. ^_^ The support team has been generous in allowing this thread to continue. Let's not abuse their generosity.
 
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This thread blew up with posts since the last time I checked in and I can't read them all. Could someone send me the link to IIDB/Elsewhere or whatever it's called so I can see what all the fuss is about please?
 
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Actually the search for Elsewhere works just fine so show your proof Latreia. If it exists then we can discuss it. I am not saying it is not there. I am calling for it to be produced.

Oh but I can. Statements have been made and proof has been asked for. Elsewhere is not a private forum and I see no rules preventing quoting from there. Heck just post the links to the posts if you are worried about permission.

So by silence they are proving you correct? That is horrible logic and again a formal logical fallacy. You have presented a false dilemma. Sorry but it holds no water with me.

Not at all. I am one of the people being slandered by these accusations. I take offense to it. The accusations have been carefully couched to barely fit within the rules of CF. I dare you to accuse me personally of the things you are accusing the IIDB regulars of participating in. I am an IIDB regular and as such you have called my honor into question and I don't let that go unnoticed. So go use the search feature and come back with proof already.

I know people have had bad experiences over there. They are generally people who do not have any desire to dialog but only defend their actions regardless of who they hurt or pain they caused others. Yeah they have bad experiences over there. I was one of those people once. I found out that I could be wrong and wouldn't crumble to ashes and it was very liberating.

The victim was being accused by their victim(s) to being with but you seem willing to completely overlook that point.

Bash, slash, squish, squash, splat, thunk, zap, kapow, wham, slam, stomp, stab, all to the tune of great debate techniques and legalese weapons of choice.

Big deal. So now I absolutely do have indisputable proof of how long it has been since I was "savoring" the naughties over at IIDB....I did not know the search feature was turned back on. So much for my "shame."

How come it is that you resort to self-righteous rage with your being offended while sneering at the obvious pain inflicted upon others at IIDB?

Others feeling slimed and slandered are meaningless to you. But just let you trot out one of your Clydesdales to hop up on, and let loose the dogs of bore.

Stop whining and take your share of the usual give and take of the boards. Stop snarling and glaring and blowing fire out of your nostrils and get real.

BTW, just who the heck are you, Big Guy? You know who you are talking at, but how do I know who I am replying to.

Introduce your own real self, Stranger..
 
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ROFOLOL. It's a sooper seeekrit thread. Hidden so nobody can view it unless you are a member. ;)

There is nothing secret about it at all. IIDB rules say that all discussion of other sites goes in Elsewhere which is an off topic forum so the thread is there. It wasn't started there since you cannot start threads in Elsewhere. No-one tries to keep it a secret. There is a list of names so people will know who is who. It is a thread that many people post on who are on staff here. It is not a secret at all. It is the rules of IIDB that keep it hidden from non-members and not the desire of the thread participants.
 
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Bash, slash, squish, squash, splat, thunk, zap, kapow, wham, slam, stomp, stab, all to the tune of great debate techniques and legalese weapons of choice.

Big deal. So now I absolutely do have indisputable proof of how long it has been since I was "savoring" the naughties over at IIDB....I did not know the search feature was turned back on. So much for my "shame."

How come it is that you resort to self-righteous rage with your being offended while sneering at the obvious pain inflicted upon others at IIDB?

Others feeling slimed and slandered are meaningless to you. But just let you trot out one of your Clydesdales to hop up on, and let loose the dogs of bore.

Stop whining and take your share of the usual give and take of the boards. Stop snarling and glaring and blowing fire out of your nostrils and get real.

BTW, just who the heck are you, Big Guy? You know who you are talking at, but how do I know who I am replying to.

Introduce your own real self, Stranger..

No secret as to who I am. I have changed my username here out of amusement and not to hide. It amuses me that you would think I am any other than myself. I used to be flesh99 then I was GoingGoingGone and am now the nifty username you see which is a reference to a fine piece of BBC comedy. Now that all that is out of the way.

Where is your proof? You are still making accusations without proof and have had your reasons for not providing proof removed. So it's time to put up. You have been asked for evidence to back your claims against CF members and staff so let us see it.

As to whether or not I care about people whose feelings have been hurt. You don't seem to get it. The people who are constantly assaulted are the ones who don't care who they have hurt. I have no desire to defend those people. Go search for me. I am flesh99 over there. You will find me defending staff that are fair and unbiased. And I don't mean those that agree with me on everything either. Those that seek only to defend their actions with no regard to those they have hurt choose their own path.

I am not on a high horse. I have been personally attacked, my integrity questioned, and slandered in this thread by being part of the IIDB crowd, or the Loud Few, if you will. My indignation is personal offense and nothing more. You either need to prove your accusations or offer an apology for making them falsely.
 
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For those who care.....

A little background on IIDB ~Elsewhere~ forum. `Elsewhere~ (~E~) was created as a place where threads would "go to die". It's been a lonstanding policy at IIDB that we are really loathe to delete threads. So we decided instead to create a place where we could move threads that really didn't fit into the other forums, or had become so badly derailed that there was no repairing them. People could still post on them, but no new threads were allowed to be started. The reason that you have to register to see the thread is because we really didn't want to show the world the place where we "took out the trash". The IIDB/Christianforums thread is an anomoly. It's stayed open and has been allowed to continue simply because the mods and admins were not opposed to people posting on it as long as they obeyed the rules (plus, we were lucky enough to find some generous and clearly masochistic people to moderate the thread).

Just thought some people might be curious.
 
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For those who care.....

A little background on IIDB ~Elsewhere~ forum. `Elsewhere~ (~E~) was created as a place where threads would "go to die". It's been a lonstanding policy at IIDB that we are really loathe to delete threads. So we decided instead to create a place where we could move threads that really didn't fit into the other forums, or had become so badly derailed that there was no repairing them. People could still post on them, but no new threads were allowed to be started. The reason that you have to register to see the thread is because we really didn't want to show the world the place where we "took out the trash". The IIDB/Christianforums thread is an anomoly. It's stayed open and has been allowed to continue simply because the mods and admins were not opposed to people posting on it as long as they obeyed the rules (plus, we were lucky enough to find some generous and clearly masochistic people to moderate the thread).

Just thought some people might be curious.
Thanks Grizzly, that is some pertinent info, I think. :)
 
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Yeah, that whole Teds thing was pretty messed up.
I am sorry CaDan, I missed this post.

A little point of interest here. They are married now and serve on the Mission Field.

oops ... I had best edit this to say, they are on the Mission Field in India and well and truly married!
 
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No secret as to who I am. I have changed my username here out of amusement and not to hide. It amuses me that you would think I am any other than myself. I used to be flesh99 then I was GoingGoingGone and am now the nifty username you see which is a reference to a fine piece of BBC comedy. Now that all that is out of the way.

Where is your proof? You are still making accusations without proof and have had your reasons for not providing proof removed. So it's time to put up. You have been asked for evidence to back your claims against CF members and staff so let us see it.

As to whether or not I care about people whose feelings have been hurt. You don't seem to get it. The people who are constantly assaulted are the ones who don't care who they have hurt. I have no desire to defend those people. Go search for me. I am flesh99 over there. You will find me defending staff that are fair and unbiased. And I don't mean those that agree with me on everything either. Those that seek only to defend their actions with no regard to those they have hurt choose their own path.

I am not on a high horse. I have been personally attacked, my integrity questioned, and slandered in this thread by being part of the IIDB crowd, or the Loud Few, if you will. My indignation is personal offense and nothing more. You either need to prove your accusations or offer an apology for making them falsely.


There's a palpable hit! Flesh99 used to be one I admired on CF. Sorry for what happened to you.

And you know, I don't remember you slandering Latreia almost a year ago. And I don't remember you among the IIDB members who turned on me as soon as they found out that Latreia was amongst them as Daemana.

And I don't remember you using the kind of cruel, cold language to me over there. And I don't remember you among those regulars who used to come after Latreia in swams to harass and flame her everywhere she tried to simply post her opinions and observations on CF earlier this year.

And I don't recall mentioning anybody's CF or IIDB usernames on either this thread or any other here on CF.

And I don't have to answer to you, because you don't seem to be anyone that was vicious to me on IIDB.

Or...were you???
 
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There's a palpable hit! Flesh99 used to be one I admired on CF. Sorry for what happened to you.

And you know, I don't remember you slandering Latreia almost a year ago. And I don't remember you among the IIDB members who turned on me as soon as they found out that Latreia was amongst them as Daemana.

And I don't remember you using the kind of cruel, cold language to me over there. And I don't remember you among those regulars who used to come after Latreia in swams to harass and flame her everywhere she tried to simply post her opinions and observations on CF earlier this year.

And I don't recall mentioning anybody's CF or IIDB usernames on either this thread or any other here on CF.

And I don't have to answer to you, because you don't seem to be anyone that was vicious to me on IIDB.

Or...were you???

I wasn't but that doesn't matter. You and others have lumped us all in together. That means you have placed me in the same group as everyone else over there. Nothing has happened to me. I am still the same person. I still take offense when my name is impugned even if it is not intended.

You see you have hurt me here without even knowing who I am. You have lumped me in with people who hurt you when I did no such thing. So how about the care and concern you want others to have. Do you care about the hurt you have caused me on this thread?
 
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There's a palpable hit! Flesh99 used to be one I admired on CF. Sorry for what happened to you.

And you know, I don't remember you slandering Latreia almost a year ago. And I don't remember you among the IIDB members who turned on me as soon as they found out that Latreia was amongst them as Daemana.

And I don't remember you using the kind of cruel, cold language to me over there. And I don't remember you among those regulars who used to come after Latreia in swams to harass and flame her everywhere she tried to simply post her opinions and observations on CF earlier this year.

And I don't recall mentioning anybody's CF or IIDB usernames on either this thread or any other here on CF.

And I don't have to answer to you, because you don't seem to be anyone that was vicious to me on IIDB.

Or...were you???
Are you Latriea? I try to keep up, but man I wish people weren't allowed to have multiple accounts.
 
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I wasn't but that doesn't matter. You and others have lumped us all in together. That means you have placed me in the same group as everyone else over there. Nothing has happened to me. I am still the same person. I still take offense when my name is impugned even if it is not intended.

You see you have hurt me here without even knowing who I am. You have lumped me in with people who hurt you when I did no such thing. So how about the care and concern you want others to have. Do you care about the hurt you have caused me on this thread?

You attacking me because you have the right because you see me attacking you because I was attacked.

Hurt me, hurt you, hurt me, is that correct?

Victims of victims. God help us in this swamp and quagmire in which we are all drowning in muck.


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You attacking me because you have the right because you see me attacking you because I was attacked.

Hurt me, hurt you, hurt me, is that correct?

Victims of victims. God help us in this swamp and quagmire in which we are all drowning in muck.


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I have accused of you of making false statements. I stand by that statement. You have proven it by saying I was not one of the people that attacked you. If goes to the very core of the IIDB is evil and serves no good purpose attacks than have been made. I see good happening there. I see bad happening there. I see people coming to Christ at CF and I see people leaving the faith at CF. You leveled accusations against a group of people that, by your own admission, are not true of the group. By doing so you have offered insult to the people that are not guilty of the accusations you level. You also make accusations without proof against the rest of the group. You are exactly what you claim to despise.
 
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The IIDB/CF threads started almost four years ago, when some of the staff and admins were playing lose and free with the rules.
It was needed then.

One admin was using a sockpuppet to bait and ban members, Christians were being prohibited from posting in the Christian only section on the whim of one or two mods.
People were being unfairly banned without recourse.

I do think that things have gotten a lot better, at least there is an appeals process and conciliators.

This wouldn't have happened without the 'elsewhere' threads.
Something important to remember.
 
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