Mother's health
- By Pop D.
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I've posted prayer requests about my mother's health before, but she says it's particularly bad right now. Please pray for her, thank you.
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Psalm 127:28 God blessed them. And God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth’
Proverbs 17:3 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.
1 Timothy 5:6 Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers.
It is good to have children. It is the usual practice. According to Paul, marriage and children go together.14 So I would have younger widows marry, bear children, manage their households, and give the adversary no occasion for slander.
Matthew 26:52 From now on in one house there will be five divided, three against two and two against three.
Is it okay for married couples not to have children?24 he said that it would’ve been better if Judas had never been born.
See also Sex is not only for procreation.31 So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
Date | May 30, 2024 | Celibacy for Christ |
Verse | 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 (NIV): "It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathens, who do not know God." 2 Timothy 2:22 (NIV): "Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart." Matthew 19:12b (NIV): "There are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it." 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 (NIV): "Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion." |
Explanation | These four passages from the Bible all address the importance of sexual morality and the call for Christians to live a holy and chaste life. Let's examine each passage in turn and see how they relate to voluntary celibacy. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8: In this passage, the Apostle Paul urges the Thessalonian believers to be sanctified, or set apart for God, and to avoid sexual immorality. He emphasizes the importance of controlling one's body in a way that is holy and honorable, and not in the passionate lust of the heathens who do not know God. While this passage does not explicitly mention voluntary celibacy, it does underscore the importance of sexual self-control and living a godly life.2 Timothy 2:22: This verse instructs young people to flee evil desires and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace. It encourages Christians to surround themselves with like-minded believers and to live a life pleasing to God. While this verse does not directly discuss celibacy, it emphasizes the importance of living a moral life and avoiding sexual sin. Matthew 19:12b: In this passage, Jesus speaks of those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. A eunuch was a castrated male, and Jesus is using this as a metaphor for those who choose to remain celibate for the sake of the kingdom of God. This verse affirms that voluntary celibacy is a valid choice for those who feel called to it. 1 Corinthians 7:8-9: In this passage, Paul acknowledges that some people struggle with sexual desire and cannot control themselves. He advises that it is better for them to marry than to burn with passion. However, he also affirms the value of celibacy for those who can remain unmarried and dedicates their lives to God. |
Societal Relevance | In modern society, Christians who wish to remain celibate to honor God may face challenges in a culture that often celebrates sexuality and promiscuity. To avoid getting into sexual perversions while keeping to biblical standards, Christians can take several steps:
For myself, as a Christian bi guy, I will remain single and celibate unless married to a woman, in order to stay true to God’s teaching, and prevent catching or spreading disease. Celibacy is similar to a seat belt or face mask, as these are methods to protect people from harm. Yes, there are a lot of handsome guys out there in the world, but it feels morally wrong for me to go against scripture and put others at risk. After hearing about the Mpox outbreak in 2022 (spread primarily by gay folks, but also straight intercourse), it has made me realize that even if hypothetically being “homosexual” is not a sin, verses about celibacy and homosexuality are in the Bible to warn us about protecting our health, as our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). According to a June 2012 study by the Guttmacher Institute, gay males are 2.3-6.9x more likely to receive an STD compared to straight male counterparts. In other words, it is safer for others and myself to remain celibate if gay or bi, instead of being in a homosexual relationship. |