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I don't think it is as much with what you're actually wearing as it is a matter of the misinformed unhealthy heart of another. My reference for this is what I can gather about life in the OT and early church.You are coming at me in a societal view and that is not my framework. I am not asking what I should wear so that guys will not objectify me--that is not my purpose. I am asking men, what am I wearing that is causing you to sin, so I know what I can do to make that struggle a lot easier for you. I understand that it is a two way street, but if I am wearing low tops where my breast is out in the open, then regardless if I'm ignorant of the fact that you're sinning and regardless if that is not my purpose, I am making it difficult for you and I have done my part to be a stumbling block.
I know that I can wear what I please, society have taught me that. My hope is to wear clothing that will both honor God and help out the guys. It is nothing if someone asks me to cover up my breast. I get no power or strength if my breasts are exposed so if someone come up to me and says "hey, I'm lusting because of what you're wearing" regardless if it is HIS fault that he lusted, if I can buy pieces of clothing that will help him in his struggles, then it's worth it.
I don't care about the idea of objectification. I didn't ask that question with that in mind nor have I ever felt pressure to wear certain things to please guys, I just want to help out my brothers in Christ.
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