hello...i am a young woman who isn't all that proud of the men i've dated in the past...about 2 years ago, i was 'thrown' into a situation and to make a long story short - ended up becoming the best of friends with a black man...we remained friends for almost a year, spending all kinds of time together (i dated other guys off and on while him and i were hanging out)...
the thing is - as we grew closer, i put up more of a 'guard' because i knew how my parents (and society in general) felt about inter-racial dating...since then, i've come to realize that he is the man for me...i feel a love for him that i've never felt for any man and we just compliment each other in every way...we've commited ourselves to each other and someday (soon!) are planning to get married...
my mother and father have been divorced and remarried to other people now for what seems like forever...my mom is getting 'used' to the idea, my stepdad mostly avoids the subject but my dad is having a really hard time with it...he pretty much stopped talking to me and i used to be 'daddy's little girl'...
is anyone else out there dealing with this kind of problem?...how do you handle it?...
i'm probably not going to be able to be online for much longer today (we're going away for the weekend cause my best friend is getting married) but i'd love to discuss this further...anyone who responds - i will definatley get back to you asap!...thanks!...