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Lol!! That's hilarious! :ahah:

She didnt think so.... well, only part of her found it funny.... the part of her that was he feet when we touched back to Earth.... then she could laugh about it. :D

Before her feet were on the ground she was trying to cover my mouth feeling blindly and smacking me in the face in the process...... so of course I continued.... if I get smacked.... the joke is getting carried out...... :| ^_^ I just had to hang my head over to the side so she couldn't lightly slap at my face trying to find my mouth.

Went to a restaurant and ate and wished the whole time that I had just gone home after work that night. That's been almost 2 years ago.

Awww, the men there must not know how to treat a lady then. :hug:

We went out to a restaurant called Old Chicago, I had a calzone. Yes, he paid.

I hope he did his due diligence and asked "Are the calzones old?" :D
 
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I hope he did his due diligence and asked "Are the calzones old?" :D
:ahah:No, he didn't. A shame really, because then I would have at least got a laugh out of the date. Granted he did pay for lunch so he was at least that considerate.:nowords:
 
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:ahah:No, he didn't. A shame really, because then I would have at least got a laugh out of the date. Granted he did pay for lunch so he was at least that considerate.:nowords:


Lunch is no excuse for lacking a sense of humor. :p

Some times you gotta make yourself look a fool/dork/cheesy just for the sake of making a woman smile/laugh. Just cause people love grumpy cats, don't mean the rules are the same for people.

Cats are at a level of awesome that defies logic..... they can bite the hand that feeds them and will still be fed. :| I love cats and even I don't grasp their awesomeness.
 
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Lunch is no excuse for lacking a sense of humor. :p

Some times you gotta make yourself look a fool/dork/cheesy just for the sake of making a woman smile/laugh. Just cause people love grumpy cats, don't mean the rules are the same for people.

Cats are at a level of awesome that defies logic..... they can bite the hand that feeds them and will still be fed. :| I love cats and even I don't grasp their awesomeness.
He lacked a lot more than a sense of humor. If he had had a sense of humor and some sense of personal space it would have helped a lot. It's true, I am not crazy about cats and yet I have one. He misbehaves and I still love him. :ahah:
 
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aw, well at least he asked you out and you went somewhere.
I wouldn't like it if a guy just came to my house and he decided the date would be to camp out there and watch tv, or watch me wash my hair or something.
Um, no.
Show a girl a nice time, that doesn't involve a tv screen or computer and make her laugh I say.
 
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hmm dates with food can trip a guy up cos some girls have hangups about food and you don't always know what they like.
Unless you both foodies and go to a food festival, which my town is having next week. hint hint.

I was thinking of going with one of my married friends if her husband doesn't want to take his wife for a date. cos girls just wanna have fun. And I don't know any guy that would want to go with me and its rude to go with guys cos a guy must ask first otherwise he's just a leach. I suppose some ppl will think I have horrible manners and totally against their femme liberal views but, I'm sorry I tried the whole fem liberal way of dating and it didn't work.
 
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He lacked a lot more than a sense of humor. If he had had a sense of humor and some sense of personal space it would have helped a lot. It's true, I am not crazy about cats and yet I have one. He misbehaves and I still love him. :ahah:


Well I understand personal space, but I just ignore it some times (Always for the sake of a laugh.... or at least the attempt of one. I DON'T linger in the personal space.)

For example...... someone says "I wanna get closer to you" I might put my face up to theirs and say "Like this? :D "
 
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My last date I picked up in my Jeep then we drove around and hit mail box's with bats and shot a few stop signs. We then went to a local hamburger place where we both had double cheeseburgers with large fries and large Dr. Peppers. We then went to the drive in where we made out in the back of my Jeep for a couple of hours. I then took her home and I went to my girlfriends house.
 
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My last date I picked up in my Jeep then we drove around and hit mail box's with bats and shot a few stop signs. We then went to a local hamburger place where we both had double cheeseburgers with large fries and large Dr. Peppers. We then went to the drive in where we made out in the back of my Jeep for a couple of hours. I then took her home and I went to my girlfriends house.
lol
 
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Well I understand personal space, but I just ignore it some times (Always for the sake of a laugh.... or at least the attempt of one. I DON'T linger in the personal space.)

For example...... someone says "I wanna get closer to you" I might put my face up to theirs and say "Like this? :D "
If his invasion of my space had been as a jest I wouldn't have cared. I'd have just laughed it off and went on. Unfortunately, if he'd gotten any more in my space he'd have either been sitting in my lap or sharing my clothes. I was never so relieved to get in my car. Honestly, I felt dirty and was tempted to shower after I got home. Anyway that's the last date I've been on in the last 2 years. ha ha.
 
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If his invasion of my space had been as a jest I wouldn't have cared. I'd have just laughed it off and went on. Unfortunately, if he'd gotten any more in my space he'd have either been sitting in my lap or sharing my clothes. I was never so relieved to get in my car. Honestly, I felt dirty and was tempted to shower after I got home. Anyway that's the last date I've been on in the last 2 years. ha ha.

Wow.... thats just weird......

As in....... it puts the lotion on its skin...... kind of weird. ^_^

he made sushi, which isn't the easiest thing to make, but it was great. :D and the movie was so so.

Hey wait a second....... IF making sushi is cooking....... then..... I am an awesome chef. I can pull things out of boxes and bags and heat them in the oven.

Even I could roll up tunafish in seaweed and about the only thing I can "cook" is a mean grilled cheese sandwich. :p

Besides, me preheating the oven and throwing a precooked meal in the oven takes more "cooking" time than raw fish. :sput:
 
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Wow.... thats just weird......

As in....... it puts the lotion on its skin...... kind of weird. ^_^



Hey wait a second....... IF making sushi is cooking....... then..... I am an awesome chef. I can pull things out of boxes and bags and heat them in the oven.

Even I could roll up tunafish in seaweed and about the only thing I can "cook" is a mean grilled cheese sandwich. :p

Besides, me preheating the oven and throwing a precooked meal in the oven takes more "cooking" time than raw fish. :sput:
and ....you are also very funny, too. ^_^
 
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Back in March. We met through a dating site.

I wasn't sure if I was interested in her, but then a crazy thing happened. It turned out we both go to the same church. My first thought: "This is going to get awkward." And BOY WAS I RIGHT.

I decided it best to rush the process and meet that very Saturday, just to avoid the awkwardness of meeting AT church on Sunday, in front of everybody lol. As soon as I saw her, I knew I was not interested. But we had some nice conversation.

Of course, she pretty much fell in love with me.

So I had to tell her I just wanted to be friends. I hate hurting people. :confused2: And my stupid friends, for whatever reason, were not believing me that I wasn't interested in her. I guess it's because they found her attractive. So they sort of egged the thing on, and she fell back in love with me again. Long story short, I ended up having to cut her out completely. The drama was becoming too much for me. She turned out to be a very loud, obnoxious, controlling drama queen, who had to be at the center of everything, and get her way, all the time.

HOWEVER, I can tell you that God was involved here, in His humorous way. Her and I each introduced a friend of ours to each other, and they became an amazing, Godly couple that's still going strong. Pretty sure I will be a best man next year. Very happy for my friend, who had been single for a few years and had been through some stuff, such as his mom passing away last year. It's just cool to see things turn around for him. :blush:
 
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