What is 1 special trait that each of your kids possess?
Neat question!! Of course, I believe God gifts each of us with special traits and talents, and that all kids have potential.
My oldest boy is very macho and handsome, but to see him with a small child or an animal would melt your heart. He is playful, but very gentle, and loves God's littlest ones. They love him, too. Babies and animals flock to this kid. (Girls do, too, but he has yet to meet one who has not broke his heart, yet!!)
My younger boy is very inquisitive, labeled "genius" in school for his math and science skills, but he still just unquestioningly accepts that there is a God, that He made us, and that we will go to be with Him one day if we accept and love His Son, Jesus. I am amazed at how easily he gets it. Other things he needs to investigate himself. I think it is because he has seen deep pain already at his age, and God is more real because of it.
My older girl is a creative "genius" and constantly sings, dances, writes and draws. She can dream up songs and stories, and characters. It makes her sort of not be "here" all the time, but she is so talented, that she will go far if I nurture these gifts.
My youngest is charming and stubborn. Of course, that is two, but they go hand-in-hand. She will charm the socks off of you, and you will eventually give in to her femininity or she will take them!!!!
~LOL!!~ I do not worry about her taking care of herself when she is a grown woman; no way!!