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Criada

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Hello everyone! Good morning... and good afternoon/evening to you Criada.


Praying for all of my WWJD Buddies!
It's afternoon - just!
I'm about 5 hours ahead of you.

God bless you, sister - your prayers are appreciated!
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kanga22

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Good morning. I feel out of the loop too, Eldaah. I've been absent from this thread because 1.) I don't have the time to read it, due to limited computer time, because I think I have a computer virus, 2.) I've stayed away on purpose because I am trying to figure things out and thought I was straying from God to do that 3.) I haven't had the ability to think about others' lives when I have so much to figure out in my own and 4.) I can't even think about how I might or might not be doing what Jesus would do, when I'm just trying to figure out how to deal with a cheating non-believer who is the father of my precious children.

Alone, I'm taking care of my children and house. My friends are not being helpful, and my extended family is in the dark(don't know the situation and are non-believers). Sometimes I just want to cry and complain, but I must be strong, because I'm the only one holding it all together.

I refuse to play into the drama and immaturity that my husband chooses. That's not what I believe Jesus would do. Now, maybe He would get angry and kick my dh to the curb like all my friends tell me to do. But, it's not my nature to get angry. My nature is to forgive - create new boundaries and rules - but forgive. I'm trying to deal with my situation with grace and dignity.

All my friends are telling me to kick him in the privates and throw his stuff out of the house (or sell it on ebay). I just don't see how that will help anything. Maybe I'm being stupid, or a wimp. I just think I'm being loving and forgiving. Most of the time I really work at being respectful too. Although I'm not sure how respectful it is to air all of this dirty laundry in public.

I apoligize that I just can't read what's been going on in your lives. And I can't even go into all the ways I believe I'm closer to the Lord than ever right now. But, I just wanted to update you all a bit, and tell you that I feel very much at peace and content in the midst of this rough patch in my life. I continue to pray that I am handling my life like Jesus would if he were in my place. And I will continue to pray that same blessing on all of your lives as well.

Be blessed.
 
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