Rose of Eden
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Going off of what you said, I can't remember the passage, but isn't there a verse which says something to the effect of: God rebukes those He loves.
It's a verse that's basically showing that rebuking someone can be done with love, and with good intention, and that it's something that we should do for our brothers and sisters. Sure there's a fine line between judging someone and rebuking them for a good purpose, but I think all of us in this thread are suggesting the latter. We don't want some barely dressed woman to come in to church so that we can talk bad things about her behind her back. What we want to do is show her what she does when she dresses that way, how it trips up some of the brothers and devalues her, and correct her in that way. It has nothing to do with judgment and everything to do with love and instruction.
I was thinking this exact same thing. We're supposed to rebuke each other (as in other believers in the church) in a loving manner when they're doing something sinful. And we're not supposed to purposely do something that will cause another believer to sin. 1 Corinthians talks about this is relation to food and meat and I think that it is certainly applicable to dress as well:
"Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others." 1 Cor. 10:24
"Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak." 1 Cor. 8:9
"Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause him to fall." 1 Cor. 8:13
In my opinion, the church should do something about immodesty. I don't think a dress code that calls out newcomers during the service would be a good idea though; that wouldn't be loving. I think a good solution would be to talk privately to any members or regular attendees that are consistently dressing in such a manner that is particularly distracting (as in always coming to church in skin tight booty shorts and a midrif-bearing tubetop, NOT simply a modest but figure flattering dress or the occasional sort-of low cut top). Newcomers who are a problem, in my opinion, should be told after they've been coming a few times already, not when they just walk in for the first time ever (unless they're completely ridiculous, I suppose, like if they're wearing a string bikini to church lol!).
I think that all of the above plus the church every so often openly addressing the topic of sexual immorality to its congregation would be a good solution.
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