J.D. Vance gestures towards something real when he suggests a sense of place and community is vital, even if he does so through a cracked lens and questionable allegiances.
The loss of community is probably one of the chief defining features of our modern industrialized world; and it's probably one of the most seriously dire problems we face moving forward. And that lack of community, of belonging, engenders grifters and con-artists and dangerous minds to try and fill the empty space with something--but not a good something. That is, in part, I think why we've seen a rise--among young men--the rise of the alpha male podcast phenomenon; but it's not just young men it's a bit of everybody. But that's an example of how people prey on vulnerability for those who desire community and belonging, and it's not all that different than the "traditional" cult/cult leader phenomenon.
I think there is genuine hunger for "the village". It's something that runs deep in our psychology, we aren't solitary animals, we're social animals--and we want our village.
There is, in the modern world, genuine and sincere opportunity for profound change in how we "do" civilization, for good. In ways that simply were not possible in previous generations. But present power structures are, in many ways, unfit for forward momentum; but they can be bent toward flexibility to provide smoother transition; or they can become rigid and inflexible to try and halt momentum--the problem with the latter is rigid structures can--and often--break when under too much strain.
I'm not convinced that the model of the nation state as it's existed for the last couple centuries is a model that is going to truly survive. The answer isn't empire-building, it's not large power; I think something that looks like small power is what could provide long term social stability.
The difficulties, as always in the world, is the human drive toward competition. Capitalism has maximized competition to the point of Social Darwinism and has reduced human beings to numbers and data to feed the perpetual hunger of economic exploitation. I don't see a stable answer in Marxist philosophy, a purely state-less society impossible because there will always be people who desire to be at the top and will do so even at the expense of others. I don't know what the solution to the problem of Capitalism is (or, at least, the solution to the problem of Capitalism on this side of the Eschaton, the solution to the problem of Capitalism from an eschatological, soteriological, is Christ and the renewal of all things in the Age to Come). I think democratic principles of individual freedom and participation in government, is crucial; but the emphasis on the individual must be balanced with community--which is why I think redistributive systems are crucial; safety nets and social equity is critical. But I suspect that works better on the small scale; rather than large empires.
Ideally some sort of cooperative model; but realism demands recognizing that competition is always there as a danger--the rival nation, the rival tribe, the rival gang, whatever it is--that sees you/yours not as a partner to cooperate with, but as a rival to compete with. Which is why certain state structures are necessary, St. Paul reminds us "he does not wield the sword in vain"--that is, for human flourishing there needs to be a curbing of evil--because the brigand and the bandit are very real. But so is the corrupt politician and the wicked businessman.
Anyway, I don't really have a point I'm going toward. It's just that when I read what you said it got me thinking and then I started rambling.
-CryptoLutheran