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Wondering if you can give me some good reasons why masturbation is a bad thing.

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Also, it is disheartening and embarrassing when a fellow Catholic proliferates sin and goes against the teaching of the Church.


That is of course assuming that what the Catholic Church says is sin..is actually what God thinks is sin. I mean bibically I donlt personally think there is much evidence God considered MB to be a grave sin.
 
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That is of course assuming that what the Catholic Church says is sin..is actually what God thinks is sin. I mean bibically I donlt personally think there is much evidence God considered MB to be a grave sin.
No it is not assuming anything- it is from one Catholic to another. Your personal opinion is trumped by the unbending moral theology of my 2000 year old Church.
 
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I am a little bit miffed at the lengths some people will go to in defending their touching yourself. :confused:


“YOU heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ But I say to YOU that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." - Matthew 5:27,28

Jesus is explicit on this matter.
 
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“YOU heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ But I say to YOU that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." - Matthew 5:27,28

Jesus is explicit on this matter.

I mean bibically I donlt personally think there is much evidence God considered MB to be a grave sin.

You must not have gotten to that part yet. Keep reading, it gets better after Genesis.
 
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]RiSeN[;40791381 said:
I am a little bit miffed at the lengths some people will go to in defending their touching yourself. :confused:


“YOU heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ But I say to YOU that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." - Matthew 5:27,28

Jesus is explicit on this matter.

You don't have to look at a woman to touch.
 
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I follow the rules of the RCC, but you can't argue from the Catechism of the RCC in mixed company and it takes it off topic anyway.

I offer my apologies to all those whose faith does not forbid masturbation. It is just that as a Catholic I am obligated to correct my brethren when they are wrong.

I am sure you have heard the scripture that says to take it to the church if he does not listen...

MATTHEW 18
"If your brother sins (against you), go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have won over your brother.
16 If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, so that 'every fact may be established on the testimony of two or three witnesses.' 17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell the church. If he refuses to listen even to the church, then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.

I am sorry... :blush:


For what it is worth I am no Saint either.
 
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]RiSeN[;40791381 said:
I am a little bit miffed at the lengths some people will go to in defending their touching yourself. :confused:

With internet porn at your finger tips whether you are looking for it or not, masturbation is probably the greatest pass time for teenagers these days. Not to mention how television has gotten more and more liberal with adult content available to children. We are in a self serving society where sex sells and everyone wants to make a buck.
 
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]RiSeN[;40791743 said:
Principles preclude legalism.

That's fine. Nobody is trying to change your principles, but the fact is that there's nothing scriptural forbidding masturbation; it's completely natural and healthy for the mind and body. But if you personally have an aversion to it, that's perfectly okay.
 
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With internet porn at your finger tips whether you are looking for it or not, masturbation is probably the greatest pass time for teenagers these days. Not to mention how television has gotten more and more liberal with adult content available to children. We are in a self serving society where sex sells and everyone wants to make a buck.

Yup, and 10 year old kids walking around with internet accessible cell phones and pods, easily exposed and exposing one another to this sickness.
 
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That's fine. Nobody is trying to change your principles, but the fact is that there's nothing scriptural forbidding masturbation; it's completely natural and healthy for the mind and body. But if you personally have an aversion to it, that's perfectly okay.

What? I just gave you a scripture. Do you know what a principle is? And its not my principle, it was JESUS saying this.

Healthy for the mind and body? According to whom? Not God. So as a Christian .. debate over.
 
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What? I just gave you a scripture. Do you know what a principle is? And its not my principle, it was JESUS saying this.

Healthy for the mind and body? According to whom? Not God. So as a Christian .. debate over.

That scripture said absolutely nothing about masturbation.

It's healthy for the mind and body according to pretty much every health professional and psychologist in the modern world.
 
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With internet porn at your finger tips whether you are looking for it or not, masturbation is probably the greatest pass time for teenagers these days. Not to mention how television has gotten more and more liberal with adult content available to children. We are in a self serving society where sex sells and everyone wants to make a buck.

Masturbation and pornography have both been around for a very, very long time. Masturbation has been a part of normal human sexuality as long as humans have existed. Pornography has been displayed in public places for thousands of years in various parts of the world. Public bath houses in ancient Greece were covered with pornographic frescoes, and erotic woodblock prints were openly displayed in Asia for hundreds of years.
 
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Masturbation and pornography have both been around for a very, very long time. Masturbation has been a part of normal human sexuality as long as humans have existed. Pornography has been displayed in public places for thousands of years in various parts of the world. Public bath houses in ancient Greece were covered with pornographic frescoes, and erotic woodblock prints were openly displayed in Asia for hundreds of years.


Sodom and Gomorrha... :crossrc:
 
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That scripture said absolutely nothing about masturbation.

:doh:


...Are you Christian?

And its now perfectly apparent you don't fully grasp the concept of principles.

It's healthy for the mind and body according to pretty much every health professional and psychologist in the modern world.

"pretty much"?

MMmmm... psychology theres a sound scientific field.......:confused:

Hmmm I wonder who the best health professional is? Could it be the One who invented health in the first place?:idea:
 
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The same could be said of cannibalism and infantcide- but the length of time something has been around says nothing objectively about it's moral value.

I never said it did.

The conversation was about how pornography and masturbation were prevalent in modern times due to internet pornography and TV. I was saying that it's nothing new.
 
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