Women when you first started dating as a Christians was it hard to tell if a man was interested or not while dating ?

[Sketcher]

I didn't date Christian guys after that. But I did have an experience with a non-Christian that made me feel loved. He didn't show me love in a physical way. He selected a few things and repeatedly told me what he liked about me. But he ended up being a player and I've questioned whether the things he said about me were genuine.

If he was a player, or trying to be a player, he may well have liked those attributes, but he may have gotten access to someone else whom he liked better. That would square with the way players treat women who are OK-looking, but not as good-looking as they would prefer, and also with what pick-up artists tell aspiring players to do (practice on women who actually will talk to them). As a Christian, I don't do that or believe in doing that.