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The problem is you veiw submission as that of a slave and that's not what God means by it. It is equal. The husband loves the wife as himself and the wife sumbits in a good way out of love, not like giving in to every whim he has. And by you saying we shouldn't you then say scripture and God is wrong then:
Eph 5:21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Eph 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Eph 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
I think it's helpful if we think of Ephesians 5:22 and following as elaboration on Ephesians 5:21. Christians are to submit to each other, but the wife's submission to the husband and the husband's submission to the wife are viewed a bit differently, with respect being the characteristic of a wife's submission and self-sacrificial love being the characteristic of a husband's submission.
That's not how God set up marriage. Do you believe what scripture has said...because it's quite blatant about it.
Gen 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
It has nothing to do w/ being better than, but that's how God set it up. That doesn't mean the woman has no leadership...but the man is the head of the household. I have no issue w/ that becasue I understand what God means by that.
I think a lot of light is shed on Gen. 3:16 when we realize that it is in the nature of a punishment or curse due to sin and death, and is not the way God intended things from the beginning. Was this curse not lifted by Jesus?
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