All I can say is what God has written. That is our guidence. We may not like what He says, but sex was given as a blessing, as a way to have children--face it, God did not have to make it pleasureable, He could have arranged things so that it would not have been fun, just a method of procreation--no special sensation. But He wanted us to enjoy it, but within His restrictions. And Anytime He forbids something, it's not to deprive us of something good, but to keep us from harming ourselves and others. It would us from STD's, illigetimate children, uncared for children, emotional pain, it would have kept women from being prostitutes and demeaning themselves. No adultry kept the family intact, the children knowing both parents, and from the pain of betrayal, from jealousy. From pimps and others who wish to exploit women and children. It was for our sense of security, for creating a closeness between wife and husband. It is up to us to choose what we will do with our minds, bodyies, finances and talents. We are to use all to the will of God. We all have our pitfalls. Some people it's gambling, drinking, food,other addictions--we are the living temple of God and are to treat our bodies as such. He never said it would be easy. But the choice is God and His will so we can prepare our characters to spend eternity with Him--or do our will and not be with Him. Abstaining from sex, for 60-100 years sounds harsh--but the price is cheap if you consider that you gain eternity, millions on millions of years living in a city paved with gold, having perfect intellect, no pain, no tears, no death, no illness, always have your friends and loved ones around you and nature more beatufull than we can imagine and most of all, being with God, walking with Jesus and finally understanding the whole thing with the Holy Ghost and them.--giving up anything that stands between us and God is a miniscule price to pay. It's easy to give in to what we want, to battle ourselves takes guts, strength, love, faith--all those God can give us. Free will--personally, I don't much care for it--If there was a button I could press where never again would I think or do anything wrong again, I'd push it. The consequences of sin far outweigh the pleasures of it.