Well I got preferential treatment when I was an atheist and as a baby christian, but if you grow up you don't. Those eagle moms they throw their kids out of the nest. Well yeah you're right, it is special treatment.
You need to learn to step out in faith and take His promises. It took me a year of proclaiming Bible texts when I was a christian before my shoulder finally got healed. I couldn't do my work anymore ever they said.
Yet an atheist collegue with the same problem said: oh sure you guys can pray for me. If it doesn't work it doesn't hurt either. Church prayed and commanded healing in Jesus' Name while he was just at home. Next day, he was at home for 6 weeks, RSI, couldn't work, LOL he comes to the office. Everyone: Hey Arco! What are you doing here? The guy was healed and he forgot that I even asked him if we could pray for him I think.