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A lady in my bible study, became a christian after she married, said that even now, after many years of marriage, and three children, her unsaved husband could just up and leave her. Thats very sad that she does not feel secure in her marriage.
A Christian could just as easily do that...and many do.
 
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I actually think the woman has a fetish for dwarfs.

Not to be mean or anything, but such things really do exist. I know of a forum that is filled with woman who solely are attracted to men in wheelchairs.

lol, yeah, it always has to be some extreme. Or they are "Adult babies" who are into wearing diapers. smh

There's never women with fetishes for 5 foot 10 inch guys strictly.
 
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lol, yeah, it always has to be some extreme. Or they are "Adult babies" who are into wearing diapers. smh

There's never women with fetishes for 5 foot 10 inch guys strictly.

I know some adult babies, never met one who was into dwarfs being babies, lol.

Sad thing though, on the wheel chair forum many of the women are like.. "I know you can't stand up but you still better be over 6 feet tall.." lol. I'm not joking.
 
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Sad thing though, on the wheel chair forum many of the women are like.. "I know you can't stand up but you still better be over 6 feet tall.." lol. I'm not joking.
 
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I actually think the woman has a fetish for dwarfs.
Not to be mean or anything, but such things really do exist. I know of a forum that is filled with woman who solely are attracted to men in wheelchairs.

Sad thing though, on the wheel chair forum many of the women are like.. "I know you can't stand up but you still better be over 6 feet tall.." lol. I'm not joking.

That is wrong on so many levels. I hope she didn't marry him because of a fetish. People can be pretty dark so what can you expect?

I shouldn't be surprised there are sites like that for almost everything.
 
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That is wrong on so many levels. I hope she didn't marry him because of a fetish. People can be pretty dark so what can you expect?

I shouldn't be surprised there are sites like that for almost everything.

Yeah, it's called devoteeism.

I don't know, plenty of paralyzed men sign up for that site and say it brings them confidence knowing there are women attracted to them. As long as everything is out in the open and consensual I don't see the problem.

Although yeah, the height comment was a little heart breaking and eye opening. Lol.
 
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Is that before or after their legs were amputated?

I don't think most of them like legs amputated.

It would have to be before, I can't imagine a guy being 6 feet tall with no legs. Lol.
 
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It's some type of disorder, like those women obsessed with incarcerated for life inmates and want to marry them.


I don't know, biology is weird.

I have to say many of the women on that site make me mad. If a guy comes in with a few grammar mistakes they'll chew him out. And a lot of the paralyzed guys there are total white knights and will put up with their bad behavior.

If I was paralyzed I wouldn't put up with their crap.
 
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Dude, it sucks. I miss it by an inch and a half.

I'm 5'10" tall, and that's the thing women have focused on - the fact that I am not over 6' tall. Never mind that in my late 30s I can still run 3 miles in under 20 minutes, nor the fact that I have a 44" chest circumference or my 18" biceps - nope, I'm a "midget" or a "manlet". It's much easier to deal with now that I've lost all interest in the fairer sex, but it really used to chap my hide.
 
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I'm 5'10" tall, and that's the thing women have focused on - the fact that I am not over 6' tall. Never mind that in my late 30s I can still run 3 miles in under 20 minutes, nor the fact that I have a 44" chest circumference or my 18" biceps - nope, I'm a "midget" or a "manlet". It's much easier to deal with now that I've lost all interest in the fairer sex, but it really used to chap my hide.

Can't you use their aging against them? What kind dames are ya goin afta?
 
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Can't you use their aging against them? What kind dames are ya goin afta?

I probably could, were I so inclined, but getting into an argument like that is having a battle with an unarmed person. I don't go after anyone in particular. Pursuit was never of interest to me - I figured if they were interested they could buck up and take the chance of rejection and try talking me up. I flip 'da script, ya dig?
 
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I probably could, were I so inclined, but getting into an argument like that is having a battle with an unarmed person. I don't go after anyone in particular. Pursuit was never of interest to me - I figured if they were interested they could buck up and take the chance of rejection and try talking me up. I flip 'da script, ya dig?

I'd think da 30 + yar old hamsterz wuld be more kind to thingz like da heights.

Or are ya aimin for dem millennials?
 
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It's much easier to deal with now that I've lost all interest in the fairer sex, but it really used to chap my hide.

How did you "lose" interest? If that happened to me it would make my life less complicated dating-wise, lol.
 
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How did you "lose" interest? If that happened to me it would make my life less complicated dating-wise, lol.

2 very protracted, very costly divorces helped me to make up my mind and "advance in the opposite direction". Dating wise, all I'm willing to do is window shop. My life is much less complicated, and I have a LOT more spare time to do things I enjoy.
 
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I'd think da 30 + yar old hamsterz wuld be more kind to thingz like da heights.

Or are ya aimin for dem millennials?

Eww...no way. I try to keep within a fairly narrow range of women my own age so at least if her elevator did go to the same floor as mine we'd have something to talk about. Millennials just make me laugh with all the yoga pants and ugg boots, not to mention the vapid personalities. Big problem is with women my age, is kids. If they have them, I ain't interested. If they don't have them, 99% chance they want them NOW, and I ain't interested. I'm looking for the gal who hasn't quite gone over into "crazy cat lady" territory, that listens to TOOL, and will laugh at my sci-fi movie references. Tough order.
 
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