The Us had additional mass shootings over the past few days. Three innocent people were shot and killed in State College, Pennsylvania; a forth remains in the hospital. That shooter later killed himself. Five women were gunned down in a Florida bank; that shooter is in police custody. The most recent in Louisiana resulted in five deaths; that shooter is still at large.
The one thing that connects all these shootings is that the killer was male. In fact, men have been responsible for almost all mass shootings.
What is wrong here? What are we teaching (or not teaching) our sons that we are apparently teaching (or not teaching) our daughters? More importantly, how do we stop this?
At least two of these shootings involved girlfriends/ex-girlfriends. Again, what are we teaching our young men that apparently makes them think that they have an ownership interest in their girlfriend/ex-girlfriend?
I would ask why we make guns, particularly semi-automatic guns, so readily available in our nation but I know where those discussions go, so please keep away from that issue.
This is a great question, that our culture currently is not addressing.
Our culture wants to ask why women are so oppressed and kept out of decision making.
There is a simple answer to this question. Men like logical structures of belief, reasons to live and are less empathetic to those around them and keeping them happy.
This dislocation has the advantage if it is a good image or goal, it will be fought for through terrible situations. The downside is if an image or goal is painted where everyone is evil and out to get the individual, like in paranoia, it becomes very easy to then go out and kill these same people, because they are no longer people, but part of the reason the person is rejected.
In my family I had a classic problem that shows up the difference between men and women.
My daughter was having too much attention by someone in our church who I have contact with. This contact is fairly public but also has been rebuffed privately. I said it would affect my contact with this young man, and was told I was not allowed to "get involved" etc. and I was being sexist etc. and off they flew in a rage. What I meant was simply I needed to be careful how I approached this young man, nothing more, as I speak to them weekly at church.
Now my daughter was reacting emotionally and in an involved way with a very personal issue. I was just saying from a contact point of view, I should be careful what I say. Guys understand what I mean, women tend to side with my daughter, because any contact would be "weird". But the facts are I have weekly contact. It is this difference and how we are wired, that is so important to recognise. Too often women see only their way of relating, and not intrinsically men are different. But get a group of women as a group and men as a group and you will see it displayed all the differences how they groups function and how this is true everywhere in every culture. And this is a God given difference that we should celebrate and also recognise the weaknesses and strengths both have.