Martinius
Catholic disciple of Jesus
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So, again, why did folks stay in the RC church? Please answer the question, rather than attack me, or just simply say you don't have an answer.
They don't all stay. Many have left, some have stopped going to church, some have stopped contributing to the church. Others stay with their parish, their faith community, but have distanced themselves from the hierarchy who have so often failed them. Yet others remain. It is a complex issue. My thought and observation is that for many Catholics their "church" is beyond the visible, beyond buildings and bishops. Their faith is directed toward God through Christ. All the corruption and evil they see in the earthly organization is not really representative of the true church, which exists in a realm beyond brick and mortar, beyond flesh and blood.
The second statement is true, the Church does not "support" pedophilia or abusive priests. But unfortunately, for too long the Church has permitted abusive priests to continue in its midst. That has been too well documented to be denied, and is the biggest issue surrounding this ongoing problem (ongoing in the sense that the Church has yet to fully admit to all of their sins in this matter and take systematic action to correct and prevent them).Dark_Lite said:The Catholic Church does not permit pedophile priests in its midst. It does not support pedophilia.
Ishraqiyun said:It's sad when a minister takes advantage of their position but the percentage in the Catholic Church are not really any higher then they are among Protestant ministers. It's a human problem in general and isn't something unique to the Catholic Church.
The problem of the abuse of authority and power in taking advantage of others is not unique to any church or culture (that I am aware of). But I don't think that first statement is supportable. Even if the percentage of abusers in the various churches is the same (I think the data shows somewhat higher percentages for Catholics) there are other factors. In Protestant churches, from the reports I have read, most of the reported instances of abuse are with vulnerable adults, usually female. When abuse becomes known, the minister or other church worker involved is quickly removed. The abusers are not pawned off on another church. When criminal abuse occurs (such as with minors), it is usually reported to the police.
We know that the coverup of abuse in the Catholic church is systemic, something that is just not possible with most Protestant faiths, since authority and decision making is usually held locally. We also know that many abusers were simply moved to other parishes, or other dioceses. We also know that the bishops and others in charge did not usually report criminal abuse to civil authorities; they handled it "internally". We also know that little credence and respect was given to the victims and their families; the documentation shows that often the victims (or their parents) were made to feel guilty for accusing "good old Fr. Smith" of such behavior.
The result of all this is to "allow" the perpetrator the opportunity to continue their abuse, so that even if the percentage of abusers was similar, the number of incidents per abuser would logically be much higher in the Catholic church. The great ongoing questions have been: "Why did the Church not stop the abuse and the abusers when they knew about it?"
"Why did the Church protect the priests but not the victims (and even worse, the future victims that never had to become victims)?" That is the very great sin of the Catholic hierarchy.
This is getting far afield from the original question. But the more recent question is a good one. It would be interesting to read more than just defensive responses and excuses, but personal responses to the question of "Why do you remain?" My question would be somewhat different: "Why don't you demand real and constructive change?"
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