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I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it wasn't a messy break up and that you two are still on good terms.

Ah, I am sorry to hear this, Traveler. You sounded so happy to talk about him all the time. So I am with Wayholka on this one; I hope it wasn't a begrudging breakup?

I don't know if we broke up on good terms or not. I didn't scream or yell at him though I did cry some while on the phone with him.

I was happy, SK....I loved him very much and was committed to him but at the end of the day you can't make someone love you or choose you. He just wanted a career more than he wanted me and that's okay, at least he was honest about it.
 
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Not a good sign, Anthony. You're younger than I am and already talking about "old" stuff like the weather. ^_^
I can't help it, I'm burning up over here! :hot:
 
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I was happy, SK....I loved him very much and was committed to him but at the end of the day you can't make someone love you or choose you. He just wanted a career more than he wanted me and that's okay, at least he was honest about it.

Ah, thank you for explaining what his reasons were, and letting us know how you were feeling about it. It seems you have made a mature response to this bad event both aloud to him and in your heart. Now I will not worry about you so much. :angel: But please hang in there. And try to remember that at least for this amount of time you were happy, and in love. I know it may be really cliche to say this right now, but I do truly believe (in most cases, anyway) that it is better to have loved (and been loved), and lost, than to never have done either at all.
 
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I can't help it, I'm burning up over here! :hot:

Oh, don't get me wrong, I hear ya. The heat down in The South sucks. I shouldn't HATE going outside in the spring and summer, but around here it usually is too hot for me to not find excuses to avoid the outdoors (yeah, I know, I can be a real wuss about the heat sometimes ^_^ ).
 
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gaaah im wide awake...:waaah:
geez, i don't get it, i'm super exhausted but not sleepy...maybe adrenaline still pumping...have to wake up at 5:30am. It's almost midnight.
 
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gaaah im wide awake...:waaah:
geez, i don't get it, i'm super exhausted but not sleepy...maybe adrenaline still pumping...have to wake up at 5:30am. It's almost midnight.
:hypno: Look into this ball... you are feeling sleepy... sleeeeeeppppyyyyy...
 
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:hypno: Look into this ball... you are feeling sleepy... sleeeeeeppppyyyyy...

is that an upside down cherry flavored lolipop??? that spiral motion though kinda relaxing lol
 
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Got a comic idea. Would anyone like to volunteer to make cameos in them? I need one male and one female.
1 male, 1 female... sounds suspicous for Singles
is that an upside down cherry flavored lolipop??? that spiral motion though kinda relaxing lol
Yes it is a lolipop... lolipop on a nice summer day... it's very relaxing... and soothing
..one would say it makes one sleeeepy...
 
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Got a comic idea. Would anyone like to volunteer to make cameos in them? I need one male and one female.
You're asking for consent now? Lol.
 
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Got a comic idea. Would anyone like to volunteer to make cameos in them? I need one male and one female.

I'll take the risk and volunteer for the male role.
 
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1 male, 1 female... sounds suspicous for Singles

Yes it is a lolipop... lolipop on a nice summer day... it's very relaxing... and soothing
..one would say it makes one sleeeepy...

im getting sleepyyyyy.....lol and now im thinking about food...pancakes...idk why...one of those days...geez why are you guys still awake it's like midnight
 
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im getting sleepyyyyy.....lol and now im thinking about food...pancakes...idk why...one of those days...geez why are you guys still awake it's like midnight
Mmm pancakes would be good. I'm going to bed soon, Friday night just staying up. Reflecting/praying.
 
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I'll take the risk and volunteer for the male role.

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