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ImAllLikeOkWaitWat

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Yeah, I'm serous it sounds like black communities have major problems..

Unless my mother's school was way out of the norm, something really needs to be done to improve the lives of black youth.

Nah it definitely set me back big time. I mean what made it bad was I went at a pretty crucial year as far as math goes. Was like a genius winning all those flash card battles in 5th grade then 6th grade i was in the hood and 7th grade came and all those x=y whatevers came and i was like uh wat happened to the math you could do instantly in your head. I was so used to math being solved in like a few seconds when it was time to sit down and grind problems out i just quit and sort of became a C student from then on out and thats my story on why i dropped out of college and im sticking to it.
 
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Nah it definitely set me back big time. I mean what made it bad was I went at a pretty crucial year as far as math goes. Was like a genius winning all those flash card battles in 5th grade then 6th grade i was in the hood and 7th grade came and all those x=y whatevers came and i was like uh wat happened to the math you could do instantly in your head. I was so used to math being solved in like a few seconds when it was time to sit down and grind problems out i just quit and sort of became a C student from then on out and thats my story on why i dropped out of college and im sticking to it.

Sorry to hear.
 
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See the man set things up to keep bruthas like us down!

Not sure how helpful that mindset is.. sounds more like something an SJW would say.

Could be true to some extent, but I think some self accountability might be needed.
 
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Not sure how helpful that mindset is.. sounds more like something an SJW would say.

Could be true to some extent, but I think some self accountability might be needed.

So you are like morgan freeman telling don lemon that everyone has the same opportunity. I think anyone who says that is being intellectually dishonest. If morgan freeman could earn 150 million as a black man just imagine what he could do as a
 
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So you are like morgan freeman telling don lemon that everyone has the same opportunity. I think anyone who says that is being intellectually dishonest. If morgan freeman could earn 150 million as a black man just imagine what he could do as a

No, I just don't think it's helpful to blame the white man for everything.. that's what SJWs and feminists do. It's just lazy.
 
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No, I just don't think it's helpful to blame the white man for everything.. that's what SJWs and feminists do. It's just lazy.

No definitely not doing that. But opportunity and privilege aren't equal in this country and it doesnt help people who weren't able to "make it" have people who were fortunate enough to make it say well race has nothing to do with anything. It's easy to say that when things went your way in life.
 
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No definitely not doing that. But opportunity and privilege aren't equal in this country and it doesnt help people who weren't able to "make it" have people who were fortunate enough to make it say well race has nothing to do with anything. It's easy to say that when things went your way in life.


I'm not saying that, I just think it's too tempting and easy to overly blame others for their problems.

When it comes to raising communities up, I don't think it's a healthy mindset to encourage. Which is why sadly I think SJWs often make problems worse. They're a perfect group to cling on to if you want to view yourself as nothing but a victim.
 
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I'm not saying that, I just think it's too tempting and easy to overly blame others for their problems.

When it comes to raising communities up, I don't think it's a healthy mindset to encourage. Which is why sadly I think SJWs often make problems worse. They're a perfect group to cling on to if you want to view yourself as nothing but a victim.

I'm not a victim. Just stating the obvious.
 
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I'm not a victim. Just stating the obvious.

Lol, I'm not sure if we're on the same page regarding this issue or not.. just a little taken aback by your earlier posts.. although not sure if you were semi-joking or not. Lol.
 
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Lol, I'm not sure if we're on the same page regarding this issue or not.. just a little taken aback by your earlier posts.. although not sure if you were semi-joking or not. Lol.

Which ones? I'd like to think I have a nice balance of joking posts with semi serious to dead serious posts ratio that makes it hard to tell what is what.
 
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Which ones? I'd like to think I have a nice balance of joking posts with semi serious to dead serious posts ratio that makes it hard to tell what is what.

Look.. you at least agree it's not always whitey's fault? Lol.
 
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Look.. you at least agree it's not always whitey's fault? Lol.

No I mean it was at one point. At this point we all play a part. Even though I do think being born in a certain environment will shape how you view the world so if a person in a poor environment comes out poorly what do any of us expect? I don't think thats an excuse but it is one factor of many to the problems we face. Even if environments were all equal(somehow) there would still be people who turn out poorly which we see among all races in america. And we see people who come from amazing environments still end up being screwups. But its just one piece of the puzzle really.
 
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No I mean it was at one point. At this point we all play a part. Even though I do think being born in a certain environment will shape how you view the world so if a person in a poor environment comes out poorly what do any of us expect? I don't think thats an excuse but it is one factor of many to the problems we face. Even if environments were all equal(somehow) there would still be people who turn out poorly which we see among all races in america. And we see people who come from amazing environments still end up being screwups. But its just one piece of the puzzle really.

Yeah, just not sure how much we disagree.. race still matters.. I just warn people not to go down the SJW route.. it isn't just demonizing white men.. I think it hurts women and minorities too.

Many SJWs strike me as masochists.. and I'm not sure how many of them earnestly want to see things get better.
 
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Yeah, just not sure how much we disagree.. race still matters.. I just warn people not to go down the SJW route.. it isn't just demonizing white men.. I think it hurts women and minorities too.

Many SJWs strike me as masochists.. and I'm not sure how many of them earnestly want to see things get better.

I don't really think we disagree at all here. I don't think any rational person could disagree on whatever it is that we could possibly disagree on in this discussion.
 
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Stressed to the max... In the last two weeks I've been off one day... Blaaaahhhh!!! Glad I have a three day weekend coming up but time to prep to move so no rest for this girl! :p
 
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Stressed to the max... In the last two weeks I've been off one day... Blaaaahhhh!!! Glad I have a three day weekend coming up but time to prep to move so no rest for this girl! :p
Still at the grocery store?
 
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