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Creepy isn’t hot but hot has more wiggle room.

Yeah if she looked like a super model I'd tolerate more.. although give her extent.. even then.. I think by now I'd be disgusted.
 
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Neoteny.. mainly.. but it's a long story.. honestly if one follows my posts in the past they should get the gist of it. I don't feel like explaining it tonight.


Yah, it's Shabbat, so I'm going to repose into more "Spiritual" topics.

Thanks for putting up with my questions. Shalom.
 
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Yeah if she looked like a super model I'd tolerate more.. although give her extent.. even then.. I think by now I'd be disgusted.

Pretty gets you far but you can’t go overboard. Good behavior has its perks.
 
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Yeah if she looked like a super model I'd tolerate more..


Wait...I have to make one last observation on this ^.

Isn't that the epitome of a feminist tactic though?!
 
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Wait...I have to make one last observation on this ^.

Isn't that the epitome of a feminist tactic though?!

What is?

It's just human nature to be more forgiving with those who have good genes. It's not a feminist tactic. Especially coming from a place of self awareness.
 
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Everybody's creepy, it's just that the best hiders...squeak by...in the circles they so desire.

Not sure if I'd really call her creepy.. women are more apt to view that in men than vice versa.. although talking to her a few weeks ago she pretty much let it slip that somehow she has photos of me on her phone. She walked it off as a joke.. still.. I found that somewhat creepy.
 
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Intentionally enhancing whatever has been deemed attractive (on a super model level, this would be the avant-garde of fashion) in order to lower boundaries.
 
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Intentionally enhancing whatever has been deemed attractive (on a super model level, this would be the avant-garde of fashion) in order to lower boundaries.

Come on.. you're going to be more forgiving somewhat to a woman you find attractive compared to one you don't.

It's simple human nature.
 
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she pretty much let it slip that somehow she has photos of me on her phone

Stop the presses. She has photos of you on her phone. Hmm. Maybe she's acting the way she is towards you because that's how she flirts. Odd, yes. But people are weird.
 
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Come on.. you're going to be more forgiving somewhat to a woman you find attractive compared to one you don't.

It's simple human nature.


Yeah, if human nature were that simple.

To use a metaphor...

The caterpillar abides in a world full of dirt and leaves, but when he/she has made the jump...

...dirt and leaves...are not much of a criterion any longer...for attraction.
 
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Stop the presses. She has photos of you on her phone. Hmm. Maybe she's acting the way she is towards you because that's how she flirts. Odd, yes. But people are weird.

She said she showed pictures of me to one of her friends.. and I was like.. you have pictures of me? And she walked it back and was like .. I described your looks to her. As far phone.. that's the most likely device. I don't know where she'd get them other than taking a few snaps of me at work.. I have a facebook but it's pretty hidden with no photos of me on it.
 
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She said she showed pictures of me to one of her friends.. and I was like.. you have pictures of me? And she walked it back and was like .. I described your looks to her. As far phone.. that's the most likely device. I don't know where she'd get them other than taking a few snaps of me at work.. I have a facebook but it's pretty hidden with no photos of me on it.


Who knows what she's up to...tacticians...

She could be bluffing to see your response.
 
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Who knows what she's up to...tacticians...

She could be bluffing to see your response.

I'm not sure if she actually has photos of me on her phone or not.. but the way the conversation went.. it gave me a creepy feel. She's also accurately described locations I've been at without telling her. One time she even honked at me when I was driving on the road.. and I had to make an awkward wave to her.
 
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She said she showed pictures of me to one of her friends.. and I was like.. you have pictures of me? And she walked it back and was like .. I described your looks to her. As far phone.. that's the most likely device. I don't know where she'd get them other than taking a few snaps of me at work.. I have a facebook but it's pretty hidden with no photos of me on it.

Well, even if that's how she flirts, she sounds horrible. Having to work with irritating people is miserable.
 
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Well, even if that's how she flirts, she sounds horrible. Having to work with irritating people is miserable.

I don't know what it was.. that was a time she was trying to hook me up with her "neighbor". Which I highly suspected was just her.
 
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I'm not sure if she actually has photos of me on her phone or not.. but the way the conversation went.. it gave me a creepy feel. She's also accurately described locations I've been at without telling her. One time she even honked at me when I was driving on the road.. and I had to make an awkward wave to her.


Hmmmm, does she per chance have a white rabbit tattoo?
 
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She makes all the effort. That’s pretty telling in my opinion. You don’t have to run a marathon to catch someone’s eye. If you’re his type he’ll notice.

Having your pics is creepy.
 
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