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It's not easy, but you may cut such people out of your inner circle in order to protect yourself. Boundaries are hard work to establish and to maintain, but they can be the difference between a life of misery at the whims of others' approval, and a life of authenticity and sincerity to who you are, even if you are alone, or have very few connections. *hug*So, thank you for making my thoughts and emotions feel totally irrelevant, and this is exactly why I shut down.
I'm sorry you feel that way. I've felt the same way myself. I've found myself liking many of your posts. You seem like a nice person. I think maybe the forum dynamics have shifted a lot over the years. I was thinking the other day that I probably won't be posting much more either. I had revisited CF last November after being inactive for 4 years. My views don't seem to align with most and constant debates aren't fun.I feel like I have so little in common with people here. I don't know if it's worth remaining on the site, but I'll hang around a bit longer and see what happens.
I love your posts, too. Thanks for saying soI'm sorry you feel that way. I've felt the same way myself. I've found myself liking many of your posts. You seem like a nice person. I think maybe the forum dynamics have shifted a lot over the years. I was thinking the other day that I probably won't be posting much more either. I had revisited CF last November after being inactive for 4 years. My views don't seem to align with most and constant debates aren't fun.
I hope you stay! I know I enjoy chatting with you!I feel like I have so little in common with people here. I don't know if it's worth remaining on the site, but I'll hang around a bit longer and see what happens.
This year I'm a Lions fan lol
You better start learning! LolI know nothing about football, but this is amusing to watch.
Must I?You better start learning! Lol
Thanks, SaucefaceI hope you stay! I know I enjoy chatting with you!
You are loved and valued!
It's not easy, but you may cut such people out of your inner circle in order to protect yourself. Boundaries are hard work to establish and to maintain, but they can be the difference between a life of misery at the whims of others' approval, and a life of authenticity and sincerity to who you are, even if you are alone, or have very few connections. *hug*
May I ask, why can't you? You don't have to give any personal details you aren't comfortable with.Well, I kinda can't cut this person out, so I just apologized and let it go. Thank you so much for your kind words of advice!![]()