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So, thank you for making my thoughts and emotions feel totally irrelevant, and this is exactly why I shut down.
It's not easy, but you may cut such people out of your inner circle in order to protect yourself. Boundaries are hard work to establish and to maintain, but they can be the difference between a life of misery at the whims of others' approval, and a life of authenticity and sincerity to who you are, even if you are alone, or have very few connections. *hug*
 
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I feel like I have so little in common with people here. I don't know if it's worth remaining on the site, but I'll hang around a bit longer and see what happens.
I'm sorry you feel that way. I've felt the same way myself. I've found myself liking many of your posts. You seem like a nice person. I think maybe the forum dynamics have shifted a lot over the years. I was thinking the other day that I probably won't be posting much more either. I had revisited CF last November after being inactive for 4 years. My views don't seem to align with most and constant debates aren't fun.
 
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I'm sorry you feel that way. I've felt the same way myself. I've found myself liking many of your posts. You seem like a nice person. I think maybe the forum dynamics have shifted a lot over the years. I was thinking the other day that I probably won't be posting much more either. I had revisited CF last November after being inactive for 4 years. My views don't seem to align with most and constant debates aren't fun.
I love your posts, too. Thanks for saying so :twohearts:
 
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I feel like I have so little in common with people here. I don't know if it's worth remaining on the site, but I'll hang around a bit longer and see what happens.
I hope you stay! I know I enjoy chatting with you!
 
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It's not easy, but you may cut such people out of your inner circle in order to protect yourself. Boundaries are hard work to establish and to maintain, but they can be the difference between a life of misery at the whims of others' approval, and a life of authenticity and sincerity to who you are, even if you are alone, or have very few connections. *hug*

Well, I kinda can't cut this person out, so I just apologized and let it go. Thank you so much for your kind words of advice! :hug:
 
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I just found this picture in my FB feed, described as "the last giant Irish hound" .... is this animal for real?! Dogs are terrifying when they get to be nine feet tall!




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Well, I kinda can't cut this person out, so I just apologized and let it go. Thank you so much for your kind words of advice! :hug:
May I ask, why can't you? You don't have to give any personal details you aren't comfortable with.
 
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