What's on your mind?

[.Mikha'el.]

I wish someone would snuggle with me like Nala and Simba are snuggling in those pictures.

 

[GodAndChocolateVanilla]

I wish someone would snuggle with me like Nala and Simba are snuggling in those pictures.

 

[Saucy]

I wish someone would snuggle with me like Nala and Simba are snuggling in those pictures.

 

[GodAndChocolateVanilla]

 

[GodAndChocolateVanilla]

I'm hungry.

 

[mojoboy31]

Quiet here today. What's everyone up to?

 

[Saucy]

Quiet here today. What's everyone up to?

Just doing what I do everyday...waiting for Somber to come on so I can have someone to pick on.

 

[mojoboy31]

Just doing what I do everyday...waiting for Somber to come on so I can have someone to pick on.

Interesting hobby
You know there's a crush thread, right? ;p

 

[Somber]

Ugh I could have killed our kitten tonight,Right as I was going upstairs to watch tv tonight,
he decided it would be fun to climb on top of my dresser and knocked over all my earings from my earing organizer,knock over all my necklaces and broke alot of pieces of my knicknacks. It took over an hr to clean up that mess.

Oh no!!!! Cats can be so mischievous sometimes!!!

Well, that's because you are cute, ... and sweet. What can we say, Somber? A lot of guys are just drawn to such qualities. ^-^


And seriously, that is perhaps a good balance between too much positivity and too much cynicism/bitterness in the way you are looking at your romantic status. At least that's what it sounds like when you say this.

Aww, thank you kindly!!!

Yeah, it wasn't always easy in the past, sometimes I had a bit of an unhealthy mindset. The past few years I have been doing a lot of inner work to redirect my focus. Like when we were little children we never worried about relationships and such, we were just focused on being children and enjoying the little silly things in life, so I have been focusing on letting my inner child out again instead of worrying about stuff that is outside of my control.

I feel like I have no purpose.

I used to feel this way, and I never could shake the feeling. I searched and searched and could never find what it was. Then one day it occurred to me, that I look at a forest and I see how beautiful it is and I adore all of the little critters and wildlife I see, it's so beautiful, I love to go along the beach and look for pretty rocks, there are so many beautiful things in this world, and it made me realize how I look at all these beautiful things and I do not question why they are here, I don't ask what their purpose is or why they should be here, I look at them and appreciate them for what they are, for how wonderous and amazing everything is. Truly creation is the most wonderful miracle imaginable, which made me wonder, why do I question my own purpose when I have a right to be here just as much as the beautiful forests and the birds and such, that maybe in all my "searching" I didn't find enough time for "appreciating" that I am here. That maybe I don't necessarily need a "purpose" which to me felt like it was feeding a mindset of "lacking" as if I lack and am undeserving and unworthy, but truly we lack nothing, or at least this is how I see it. Sending big hugs your way!!!

I wish someone would snuggle with me like Nala and Simba are snuggling in those pictures.

 

[Somber]

Quiet here today. What's everyone up to?

Finally getting a chance to relax after a long day!!! We had a huge winter storm go through. I guess part of the highway was even shut down for a bit. I had to shovel out my car this morning and I barely made it to my brothers place to watch nephew. My car got stuck in their driveway because the snow was a bit deep, so I spent an hour shoveling it out before my return home!! Quite a day!!!

How about you?

Just doing what I do everyday...waiting for Somber to come on so I can have someone to pick on.

WOW! What did I ever do to deserve this? lol

 

[Saucy]

WOW! What did I ever do to deserve this? lol

You were born. Worst. Day. Ever.

 

[Saucy]

How much snow did you get? We got mostly rain today from that storm (thankfully) but just north of me they had a ton of ice and freezing rain.

 

[Somber]

I'm not sure how much snow we got, but we were dumped on. I am guessing a few feet of snow. They plowed everything last night and this morning but then the roads were all covered again very fast. I was afraid to stop while driving the backroads and even some parts of the highway otherwise I knew I might get stuck, so I kept plowing through. lol

 

[Saucy]

I'm not sure how much snow we got, but we were dumped on. I am guessing a few feet of snow. They plowed everything last night and this morning but then the roads were all covered again very fast. I was afraid to stop while driving the backroads and even some parts of the highway otherwise I knew I might get stuck, so I kept plowing through. lol

Oh wow!

 

[mojoboy31]

Finally getting a chance to relax after a long day!!! We had a huge winter storm go through. I guess part of the highway was even shut down for a bit. I had to shovel out my car this morning and I barely made it to my brothers place to watch nephew. My car got stuck in their driveway because the snow was a bit deep, so I spent an hour shoveling it out before my return home!! Quite a day!!!

How about you?

Nice nice. That sounds stressful. Glad you made it back safe.

Taking care of things, putting out fires, dreading work tomorrow, you know, the usual stuff

 

[Somber]

Nice nice. That sounds stressful. Glad you made it back safe.

Taking care of things, putting out fires, dreading work tomorrow, you know, the usual stuff

I was stressed earlier today, but mostly from this past weekend and not from the snow. I am pretty used to snow for the most part. All the shoveling/physical labor actually helped me relieve most of my pent up nerves. This reminds me that I need to exercise more to help with stress. xD

Awww, sending hugs your way!!!!

This be you:

 

[Somber]

Oh wow!

Yeah it was crazy!!!!

 

[SarahsKnight]

used to feel this way, and I never could shake the feeling. I searched and searched and could never find what it was. Then one day it occurred to me, that I look at a forest and I see how beautiful it is and I adore all of the little critters and wildlife I see, it's so beautiful, I love to go along the beach and look for pretty rocks, there are so many beautiful things in this world, and it made me realize how I look at all these beautiful things and I do not question why they are here, I don't ask what their purpose is or why they should be here, I look at them and appreciate them for what they are, for how wonderous and amazing everything is. Truly creation is the most wonderful miracle imaginable, which made me wonder, why do I question my own purpose when I have a right to be here just as much as the beautiful forests and the birds and such, that maybe in all my

It's like knowing a real-life forest elf princess from fantasy fiction right here with us, CF singles compatriots.

 

[GodAndChocolateVanilla]

 

[SarahsKnight]

WOW! What did I ever do to deserve this? lol

Flirting .... It's called flirting, Somber. ^-^