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I don't know any singles but back when I did they'd always be more interested in other guys. I could never get past basic introduction type conversations. They'd just move on to other guys. Sometimes my voice would just get drowned out.
 
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Does God have one for me or no :cry:
Many, many, many, many, many possible ones. But trying to force it at the wrong time or with the wrong person can be disastrous. If there's no singles around you, then focus on you, pick up some interesting hobbies, learn some new skills-- interesting hobbies can make for an interesting guy-- picking up new skills can build confidence.
 
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Music is the only reason I have stayed sane while at work. ^_^

As far as COVID coping goes, I'm with Rihanna on this one:

...let's escape into the music, DJ, let it play
I just can't refuse it, like the way you do this
Keep on rocking to it
Please don't stop the, please don't stop the, please don't stop the music...

I find that worship music, love songs, and instrumental music (especially classical) really helps. Linkin Park's dominant theme is hopelessness in emotional turmoil; popular with a generation enjoying good times (roughly 1990-2006). The WWII Generation really enjoyed easy-listening jazz music during hard times (1929-1946). Quite the contrast, eh?
 
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It takes me an hour to watch a 20 minute TV episode & 5 hours to watch a 2 hour movie. I need a GF so bad! She can help me power thru DVDs!

Just curious how can a 20 minute episode become an hour and a 2 hour movie become 5 hours? :)
 
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Just curious how can a 20 minute episode become an hour and a 2 hour movie become 5 hours? :)
I rewind a lot.
During the 'TV breaks' I pause it & take a little break.
I don't do either if someone's watching w/ me.
 
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I rewind a lot.
During the 'TV breaks' I pause it & take a little break.

So it's like you have alot on you mind while watching an episode or a movie and then rewind because you thoughts were no the movie but elsewhere.

If so, I can to some extent relate to that. I get disctracted too when when I have alot on my mind.
 
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So it's like you have alot on you mind while watching an episode or a movie and then rewind because you thoughts were no the movie but elsewhere.

If so, I can to some extent relate to that. I get disctracted too when when I have alot on my mind.
It's a lot of reasons. Sometimes it's that & my mind just wandering & my mind was elsewhere, sometimes I just like a part & want to rewatch it, sometimes I just got confused & need to rewind, sometimes it's b/c I want to rewatch a part w/ the knowledge I have of what comes next.
 
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I am totally exhausted, please God let me sleep tonight!

Lack of sleep over long periods is not good for mind, body or health.

Try burning essential oils in your room before bedtime. I find ylang ylang quite good, there are quite a few oils you can use for helping you relax. Some say lavender oil on pillow, quilt or a few drops in a carrier oil for applying to upper body, I guess shoulders and neck.

Peace be to all those in the Body of Christ.
 
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Everyone here should hear this from me. You have graciously looked to me as a knight, or at least someone who genuinely tries to be, so when I screw that whole thing up, I should confess it.

The Lord has greatly humbled me today.

There I was for most of the day, laughing along with everyone else about two certain people on other crews in the lab and how they've messed up a lot of things, whether by being unsafe in their work or just unfocused and ended up making a major blunder. Oh, I was telling my own stories about them, too, not just playing along with the others'. It was gossip, pure and simple. And worse, who am I to talk about the lack of safety and awareness and all on these two's part if I myself have cut corners before? And sure enough, later on that shift, as I am making up a solution I lose my focus and completely spill a good 100 to 200 mls of nitric acid everywhere, a fraction of it hitting my sleeve and burning my wrist. I was wearing protective gloves - that much I always do - but not the particular kind for the specific purpose of transferring larger quantities of concentrated acid, as they are elongated to protect the forearms as well as the hands. Thus, my wrist got drenched. It is a minor burn, and I did at least take the measures to mitigate the effects right away, and thank the Lord Nel wasn't there today to find out; that would have been a huge mark on my personnel file .... like, the kind Agent Mulder from The X-Files probably racked up quite a few of by the end of his career as an FBI agent ^_^, but nevertheless, through a combination of lack of the proper full protective attire and a clumsy moment, I screwed up. And considering I had been berating some folk behind their back all day beforehand for this very type of mistake, I think it served me right. Even without getting into trouble with any superiors or anything, it was a humiliating experience but one that I can only imagine the Lord allowed to occur for the sake of chastising me for my very un-knightly pride earlier.

Offhand I do not know the book and chapter, but I know there is at least one verse somewhere in Scripture admonishing us not to despise the chastening of the Lord, for He does so to those He loves. I noticed something in my experience today; I feel humiliated by my mistake, but it is not the same kind of humiliating scene the Lord allowed to or Himself brought upon me as, say, the kind of humiliation that a school bully or some other human opponent might bring upon you. I felt the Lord's gentle rebuke and genuine admonishment through my humiliation; it was harsh, but He delighted not in bringing it upon me as a bully or other personal enemy would have, no. Instead, He genuinely wanted me to learn and do better from this. He truly wished for my personal own good. That is why it is called only admonishment or chastisement when it comes from Him; not a personal hatred or wish to harm.:angel: Please pray that I will remember this lesson and act better in all ways from here on while in my work environment, even if I might ever be tempted or even pressured into behaving in a reverse way.
 
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Everyone here should hear this from me. You have graciously looked to me as a knight, or at least someone who genuinely tries to be, so when I screw that whole thing up, I should confess it.

The Lord has greatly humbled me today.

There I was for most of the day, laughing along with everyone else about two certain people on other crews in the lab and how they've messed up a lot of things, whether by being unsafe in their work or just unfocused and ended up making a major blunder. Oh, I was telling my own stories about them, too, not just playing along with the others'. It was gossip, pure and simple. And worse, who am I to talk about the lack of safety and awareness and all on these two's part if I myself have cut corners before? And sure enough, later on that shift, as I am making up a solution I lose my focus and completely spill a good 100 to 200 mls of nitric acid everywhere, a fraction of it hitting my sleeve and burning my wrist. I was wearing protective gloves - that much I always do - but not the particular kind for the specific purpose of transferring larger quantities of concentrated acid, as they are elongated to protect the forearms as well as the hands. Thus, my wrist got drenched. It is a minor burn, and I did at least take the measures to mitigate the effects right away, and thank the Lord Nel wasn't there today to find out; that would have been a huge mark on my personnel file .... like, the kind Agent Mulder from The X-Files probably racked up quite a few of by the end of his career as an FBI agent ^_^, but nevertheless, through a combination of lack of the proper full protective attire and a clumsy moment, I screwed up. And considering I had been berating some folk behind their back all day beforehand for this very type of mistake, I think it served me right. Even without getting into trouble with any superiors or anything, it was a humiliating experience but one that I can only imagine the Lord allowed to occur for the sake of chastising me for my very un-knightly pride earlier.

Offhand I do not know the book and chapter, but I know there is at least one verse somewhere in Scripture admonishing us not to despise the chastening of the Lord, for He does so to those He loves. I noticed something in my experience today; I feel humiliated by my mistake, but it is not the same kind of humiliating scene the Lord allowed to or Himself brought upon me as, say, the kind of humiliation that a school bully or some other human opponent might bring upon you. I felt the Lord's gentle rebuke and genuine admonishment through my humiliation; it was harsh, but He delighted not in bringing it upon me as a bully or other personal enemy would have, no. Instead, He genuinely wanted me to learn and do better from this. He truly wished for my personal own good. That is why it called only admonishment or chastisement when it comes from Him; not a personal hatred or wish to harm.:angel: Please pray that I will remember this lesson and act better in all ways from here on while in my work environment, even if I might ever be tempted or even pressured into behaving in a reverse way.
eh, don't beat yourself up too much. I'm sure everyone here has gotten carried away in conversation a time or two.
I'm glad you weren't seriously hurt.
 
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Wb Sampa!!
Thank you @Saucy :hug:

On another note on my mind, you and @SarahsKnight reminded me of someone that I recruited to help me with my wellness insurance position as sort of a cheerleader and coach.. I recruited people from different areas that our counties away from me to be Representatives in helping others to be healthy. I just can't be everywhere in 13 counties. At the end of today I got an email from one of the guys that has been helping me the last couple years, he mentioned that the top guy for our district was visiting to talk about the wellness insurance. He said how much that I helped him and that he has started a biggest loser with his unit as incentive for healthier coworkers. Just when I thought what I started 2 years ago with getting Representatives wasn't doing much, this encourages me so much.

Just like when you have to raise kids and it takes a village, I think it's the same when you are trying to get the word out and helping others to live a healthier and happier life. I can't do it by myself and I am so grateful for people like this. My coworker in the cubicle next to me has been helping me with my initiative locally to get others in step challenges. She made up certificates for me for the challenges that I can give to the winners. I can't say how much it means when I get support. And I hope I can support others.
 
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