I feel uncertain. I'm going to college on Saturday. How will be able to interact socially with people after sitting around at home for two years? I really hope I can have conversations that don't just consist of me telling someone something, them interjecting, and then me forgetting what I was going to say next.
Just be yourself, in my experience conversations either flow naturally or not, and there's not much you can do to influence that.
Here's my advice about college...
- Don't take 8am classes by choice.
- Communicate with your professors, and get to know your academic advisor. It will do wonders.
- You might not meet your friend group your first semester and that's perfectly okay.
- Get involved! Chances are there's a group on your campus that shares your interest, and it will help you feel connected to the community.
- It's perfectly okay to sleep until 11am/noon.
- Try as much as you feel comfortable with. You may not know you like something until you try it.
- Sometimes it's better to go with it instead of asking questions. Some of my best college memories were spontaneous plans.
- In light of that, don't throw away your future.
- Call your parents weekly.
- The freshman 15 is real, find a way to exercise and get something healthy from the cafeteria on occasion.
- Learn to manage your time. People say in college you have to choose two things between sleep, good grades, and a social life, this is not true.