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How tall is he?

I have a lot going for me as well. And sadly a lot of people like my personality too. Lol.




Uh oh, lol.

If you think I'm ugly just come out and say it. Lol.

Have you a proper profession? A job, that you like? A good degree? These are things, that help with a man, in having confidence, in himself, and not seeking such petty distractions. You are old enough, to have this, by now. I had liked your personality too, at first, as I had thought, it was meant to be humourous, satirical.
 
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Have you a proper profession? A job, that you like? A good degree? These are things, that help with a man, in having confidence, in himself, and not seeking such petty distractions. You are old enough, to have this, by now. I had liked your personality too, at first, as I had thought, it was meant to be humourous, satirical.

Yeah. That stuff doesn't guarantee confidence. I know of short men who make over 200k a year who are still very depressed about their height.

Let's get real here.. lol. Material successes are not necessarily something that leads one to happiness.
 
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When someone criticizes my post, for some reason I take it personally. It's stupid I know.

But I still continue to post regardless of who criticizes me.

Just gotta get desensitized to it.
 
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That or just let the tears flow as they wish, like I do.

After a while though you just get numb to it. Lol.

Not sure how old you are, but that's been happening to me a lot in my mid-20s.

Starting to take more of a Gilbert Gottfried attitude to life. Lol.
 
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Yeah. That stuff doesn't guarantee confidence. I know of short men who make over 200k a year who are still very depressed about their height.

Let's get real here.. lol. Material successes are not necessarily something that leads one to happiness.

It doesn't guarantee confidence, no, but for the majority, success, it most certainly helps. It's not just about material success, either, no. Most students, in good degree programmes, they haven't yet become successful with income, but, they are very satisfied, confident, in how they are making their life. It makes them have far less, idle time, on their hands. I take it, the answer, is no, to all the questions, that I asked you.
 
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It doesn't guarantee confidence, no, but for the majority, success, it most certainly helps. It's not just about material success, either, no. Most students, in good degree programmes, they haven't yet become successful with income, but, they are very satisfied, confident, in how they are making their life. It makes them have far less, idle times, on their hands. I take it, the answer, is no, to all the questions, that I asked you.

You take an answer of "no" to what questions?

How does one define success? To me that's above being a doctor or lawyer.

I'm not one of those, could give a flying crap about it either. Lol.
 
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You take an answer of "no" to what questions?

How does one define success? To me that's above being a doctor or lawyer.

I'm not one of those, could give a flying crap about it either. Lol.

The questions I asked you, about having a fulfilling profession, a degree, etc, as these have an impact, on confidence, and, on how time is spent. Success, it's the accomplishment, of an aim, or purpose.
 
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The questions I asked you, about having a fulfilling profession, a degree, etc, as these have an impact, on confidence, and, on how time is spent. Success, it's the accomplishment, of an aim, or purpose.

I think I have a decent career. I don't derive any happiness for that, in fact I rather hate the corporate world and all it's phoniness.

I have goals I have yet accomplished, which saddens me thus far but that doesn't have anything to do with how I feel about my height.

If someone having a degree is enough to fill them with confidence I'd say that's a shallow simple minded person. Lol.
 
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The questions I asked you, about having a fulfilling profession, a degree, etc, as these have an impact, on confidence, and, on how time is spent. Success, it's the accomplishment, of an aim, or purpose.

So if your boyfriend didn't have a profession, degree, friends, but the same level of confidence which you seem to be claiming is all that matters, would you still be with him is the question?
 
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