yes in Scotland he is suppose to pay my, even if you get the government to chase him, I would need to pay them to do it and he's self employed which means he could hide money and I would end up wasting money for nothing....
Ok he lives in England which is 45 mins on the plane, you can get a plane ticket if you do it in advance for £40 return...... also I allow him to have my house with the boys so he doesn't have to pay outlays like hotel room etc
What happened was he was suppose to come in april but said he had this big job coming up, so I said that was ok and I was coming down at the end of april anyway with the boys to see him (Which I paid for) he then said he was coming up for Sons birthday, again he said about work, he then told the boys he was coming up at the end of may as his friend was traveling up for work and he was getting a lift with him, then that fell through, he then told them 2 weeks which would be this week.... I have heard nothing from him, his phone is turned off....
The last chat we had was when he asked me if I was moving back and I told him no under no terms he then asked for the two younger boys and again I told him no he couldn't have them living there for god as he isn't responsible enough to look after kids full time..... he then texted me asking me what the boys needed and I have heard nothing since.... I've texted his brother as his mum and dad are on holiday.
This is exhausting to be truth, it seems that I am making the effort as it's very important for kids to have a father....