No, what I am saying is that there is no equivelancy between baptism and Naamen’s washing in the Jordan. Naamen was not being baptized.
The "equivalency" is in the fact that God's gift (healing/forgiveness of sin) is given only upon the faithful completion of the commanded action that God says LEADS TO/RESULTS IN the gift being received.
Naaman did not receive cleansing of his disease until he did everything that the prophet of God told him to do (seven dips). We are not cleansed of our sin until we do everything God tells us to do (repent (Acts 3:19), confess Jesus as Lord (Rom 10:9-10), and be baptized (Acts 2:38, 1 Pet 3:21, John 3:5, etc.)).
Your position mean that salvation is earned by keeping the commandments and selling all you have to give to the poor as Christ instructed. You can’t ignore all of the examples of those being saved but couldn’t be baptized due to circumstances.
There are no examples of such; not a single one.
Selling your goods and giving to the poor was a focused instruction to that one person, because he was so focused on his goods that he could not get to God. But that is not a New Covenant commandment that leads to salvation. Jesus did not say that we must be born of water, the Spirit, and giving all our goods to the poor (John 3:5), He said only "water and the Spirit".
You are not addressing the issue. The issue is not baptism itself, it is whether or not a person who cannot be baptized due to their circumstances and yet they have come to Christ then cannot be saved.
That is not the issue. There is no salvation without obedience to God's commands. Jesus doesn't save everyone, He only saves those who obey Him (Heb 5:9).
A simple example: A sinner is exploring the desert and runs out of water. This drives them to pray and they recieve deep conviction of their sins. They repent and accept Christ as their savior but they subsequently expire due to thirst before they are rescued. Will God then damn them to hell because they were not baptized?
Simple, but false, example. Rom 10:14 says that they cannot call on whom they have not believed, and they cannot believe in whom they have not heard, and they cannot hear without a preacher. If they call to God in the desert, then they heard the Word before they went to the desert. And if they heard the word before they went to the desert then they had opportunity to be baptized before they went to the desert. Salvation is not "fire insurance". We do not put off accepting Christ until just before the end, and then holler, "Wait, let me pray to God to save me so that I don't spend eternity in Hell." No, accepting Christ is a life-long commitment of love, obedience, and worship. If we put it off until the end, then we really don't love Him, and He will not save us.