BTW best tip ever for when married..... fight naked. Attention often gets diverted on what the fight was about lol.
Often (like myself years ago) I thought casual sex was the same as married sex. I was so wrong. Casual sex is about as meaningful as tofu ice cream. lol
I wish there was a way to tell these [young] people casual sex is so not worth it.
I had a girlfriend who I hoped to be my wife (but for spiritual purposes, it didn't happen.) Still, she upgraded me as a man, and she let me be a man as I am suposed to be. She let me *think* I knew "everything," even though we both knew I was probably wrong. She wasn't submissive; she was very strong. I realize that it takes a strong woman to let a man be a man - despite his apparent shortcomings. She even gave my mother a gift that she and my mother knew the meaning of... that I had no idea of. She was a great woman. I, to this day, sleep modified according to her - in a way that wouldn't offend her (i.e. sleeping on my stomach for obvuous reasons.) I loved her. I still love her. I wish these young people coming up could experience that. The culture of premiscurity is silly. There exists a soul-mate for each person. Proton-to-electron interms of physics.
And, as you said, casual sex is as good as tofu ice cream. Sure, it tastes good at that moment, but when you have tasted Cold Stone Cremery Ice cream, you will realize how fleeting casuality is in terms of intercorse.
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