What makes sex so great in a marriage? Obviously I've never done it and I'm not married, so what do I (possibly) have to look forward to?
Leo
When sex is in a healthy marriage it is excitement, pleasure, connection, & joy all rolled into one. When a couple is looking forward to the; intimacy, foreplay, and its climax is amazing. It has a melody of pleasure before, during, and after. Mind body and soul should be it a happy place. It is like whipped cream and a cherry on top of the relationship bananna split. Good sex requires other important elements; companionship, trust, shared interests, and a warm home to reach its potential. It all rolls into joy knowing the heart, mind, and body are be bonded. There is a lot to look forward to.
Please remember like all activities; it takes practice
, and can be; great, good, or just fun even if an element or two is missing. Be patient with yourself and spouse. Don't be afraid to read up on intimacy and talk with a married friend. Also understand there is a great deal of biology, by God's design, involved.
If you can, wait, if you can't be careful. Do not be to hard on yourself.