The first of the four categories of Christians I will try to describe are
1. the Cessationists themselves. As seen obviously here in this thread, they are not a group with agreed-upon reasons that tongues/prophecy/word of knowledge have ceased; they are just dead-sure that they have ceased
2. by far the majority of Christians in the world today NEITHER speak in tongues/prophesy/declare a Word of Knowledge NOR do they adamantly claim these things cannot happen today, the gifts are not a part of their ongoing worship, yet they know, sitting in their Presbyterian or Baptist church that the Assembly of God church a block down the road has members speaking in tongues all the time and exhibiting gifts -- well, even if they don't know it, they have no SET POSITION against it happening. These are the biggest of the four groups
3. the Pentecostals and Charismatics who go to churches where sign-gifts are a regular part of worship. Unfortunately there may be a minority in this group who over-boardedly claim that speaking in Tongues is something every Christian should do. No. Paul asks the rhetorical question "do all speak with tongues?" and a no is assumed. The extremists who say you must speak in tongues to be saved are clearly mistaken.
4. Christians who have had the charismatic experience yet remain in denominations where the gifts are not a regular main part of worship. I am in this category. I visited pentecostal and assembly of God churches much, but I like Methodism. I attended for a while a charismatic Episcopal church and they went strictly by the book of one message in tongues at a time and it must be interpreted. This was quite different from a whole crowd of prayer-languagers raising hands and speaking en masse. I also attended some Charismatic Catholic services.
These are just broad general categories. As I have said, #2 is by far the largest population.
Adding apostleship and miracles and healing to the three designated gifts that will eventually expire is not warranted -- and Paul did not say he was "the last apostle" -- he said Christ appeared to him last out of those listed
1Co 15:5
And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve:
1Co 15:6
After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep.
1Co 15:7
After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles.
1Co 15:8
And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
1Co 15:9
For I am the least of the apostles, that am not meet to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God.
Paul said he was last to see Christ of those mentioned, not that he was the last apostle.
He said in next verse he was LEAST of the apostles, not LAST of the apostles.