I watched a very good message on Youtube from a pastor who spoke about Christian bullying. He was very good. He said that when Christians discriminate against others on the basis of whether they are holy or not holy, then they are being spiritual bullies. He also said that when Christianity became the official religion of the Roman Empire under Constantine, he said that unless people adopted Christianity they were treated like criminals. This is when Christianity became a bullying religion, saying, "We are the official religion and if you don't join us, you will be punished."
All though history we have seen the strongest church bullying smaller movements. The Methodists were bullied by the Anglican church, the Pentecostals were bullied by the Evangelical churches. The Charismatics were bullied by the traditional Pentecostals. The members of the Brownsville revival were bullied by the Charismatics and the Pentecostals.
The bullying consisted in throwing people out of their churches, spreading lies about them, ridiculing them, and threatening them with judgment and hell.
It happens among our own churches. We bully gays, those of difficult cultures, people who don't dress for the church in the way we think they should, those who support abortion, people who are divorced and remarried, etc. What we don't realise is that their "sins" are not better or worse than our own.
Think about this: adultery was punishable by death under the Law, which God wrote. Yet Jesus did not condemn the woman actually caught in adultery. If that woman had been a member of any of our churches, she would be thoroughly condemned with the future in hell and physically removed from the church and thrown out of the street!
It is no wonder many non-Christians don't want to come to our churches. They are afraid of being bullied by the "holy" and "spiritual" members of the church. Many so-called decisions for Christ have been made under duress - "You are a sinner and you will go to hell if you don't join our church and become a Christian." Then once the unfortunate victim becomes a member, then they are bullied into complying with the rules of that church.
"You must attend every Sunday otherwise you will go to hell."
"You must believe what is told to you without question."
"You must dress the way we tell you."
etc, etc.
My daughter won't attend a church because she said, "I don't want people telling me how to live." It is not rebelliousness on her part because she accepted the Lord of her own free will at the age of 11. No. She is afraid of being bullied into submission to a set of rules.
I think that we need to work more on getting the piece of 4X2 out of our own eyes before we try to take the speck out of another's.
We have seen the bullying on this forum, throwing condemnation bombs at others because they believe something different to what they do. I have seen divorced and remarried people, gays, atheists, mercilessly bullied and had condemnation bullets fired at them time after time.
God sees all. And when bullying happens in a church in the way I have described, and people in prayer meetings ask God to bless their church, God, who sees the bullying will definitely answer, "NOPE!"