What Is Going On?

[blackribbon]

Something forgotten in the one with the dog: She had stood him up twice. The first time was a plain out no-show. No dog then, just plain no-show.

The second time she had to take her dog to the vet. Hmmmm... and she's pursuing Exit????

Third time--- well, if it's me she's pursuing there just might be a problem. Once is an accident, twice is a coincidence, third time she's a game player.

No, I think it was just the one time... I just re-read the first post...he initially called it "stood up" but she really did send a note to say she couldn't make it...

Exit?

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

and why would she say "please don't be mad" if she didn't care? Why would she care if you were mad if she was just playin ya?

 

[dayhiker]

An extension of Michelle's thought.
I think if your mad at her because you think she has given you a line then when you next talk with her, she will feel that negative emotion and pull back from you.

 

[exitstageright]

Yah know exit. I don't even THINK about sex when I think about my friends...male or female. And yeah, I've given and got massages from friends of both sexes.

You had cancer? .... or are you talking about your ex and comparing your diabetes to her cancer...

I am sorry that I did not make myself clear. No,I never had cancer. My ex had cancer. Both of us,my lady friend and I,can only have certian kinds of food.We both cannot eat any sugary treats.That is what we have in common.

 

[exitstageright]

First of all, I have to say "here we go again, down the same rabbit hole".

EXIT, you said you had a friendship with "a" woman? Meaning one? one time? and that's it?

Your desparation can be smelt from miles away. You may think you are a good actor, but I don't think so when it comes to real life. JMHO.

And for you to insinuate that God is playing some sick game with you is offensive to me. You only seem to care about your sexual needs and getting someone to fulfill those. I never hear you talk about how God is leading you to do this or that. God is not some Genie that grants wishes for good boys and punishes the rest and unless and until you change your attitude, you will continue to go down the same rabbit hole.

My suggestion (although I know you won't take it) is to NOT search and actually just get to know some women JUST to be friends with them.

I am sorry that I was not clear with you. This lady is still my friend.We just do not see each other anymore,because she moved about 150 miles away from me. Oh,wait a minute!,we did see each other last month at a dance.I had a dance date with another woman.

Now,I did not insinuate that God is playing a sick game on me. If I said that I think that God was playing a game on me,then that would be insinuation. I said that sometimes,I feel. Feelings,although they can be real,are not always logical. Therefore,they should not always be taken seriously. For example,if someone cuts me off on a highway, I may feel like ramming my car into the other driver's car. But,if I do not act on that crazy,illogical feeling,then no harm was done! Was not the story of Job some sort of wager or game netween God and Satan? By the way,Satan lost,and God gave back to Job more than he let Satan take away from Job

FYI,here I do have women friends. Here are two women friends of mine.One lives in Chicago.The other lives in Miami.I spent four days in Ohio with women and men friends.One woman friend had invited us to her 100 acre farm in Ohio. These two lovey ladies are living proof that there are some women who find me desirable.But,they are not from California.Things are so much different here than from the rest of this great country of ours. Yes, we were on a cruise.

 

[exitstageright]

An extension of Michelle's thought.
I think if your mad at her because you think she has given you a line then when you next talk with her, she will feel that negative emotion and pull back from you.

Well folks,here is the lastest.First of all,like Fonzie,I was wwwwwrong!
There!,Now I will take my 40 lashes with a wet noodle.
Here is her e-mail:


S

thank you for asking 'how my dog is doing'
it was a tuff weekend and he now slowly gets better - he is on antibiotica now for the next 3 days
he does need to get well otherwise he cannot go home with me '-((( on june 20th

How did your casting meeting go?

my dates between now and June 25th are pretty much open after 5 pm - unless something does come up[

let me know how your schedule looks and I am sure we find a date and time

have a great evening

C.


Is everybody happy now?

I asked herif we could compare schedules after I asked her how her dog was doing.
So,I learned two things. One,I should not just jump to conclusions. Two,not every woman is out to emotionally torment me. I have been abused in my life.I just have to trust people more.Now ,you want me to say something positive about God?

lOne day,while in elementary school,this older, bigger kid,knicknamed "Pinkey",while we were in the boys bathroom,pulled my hoodie over my head,knocked me to the bathroom floor,and started stomping on me! So,you see? Nowadays I am being verbally,and emtionally being stomped on. My father,one time,made me take off all of my clothes. He whipped me with a belt,while I was naked,in order for the belt to sting more. Playing football,in high school, was a good and a leagal way to take out my frustrations.Yet,with past abuse,I did not turn out to be a serial killer.God had and still has plans for my life.I have learned to forgive people.

However,it is a lo easier to trust God,than to trust people.The Bible says that God cannot lie.Too bad we cannot say the same thing about people. I just cannot trust anyone who lies to me,

 

[exitstageright]

and why would she say "please don't be mad" if she didn't care? Why would she care if you were mad if she was just playin ya?

Maybe,maybe not.

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

I am sorry that I was not clear with you. This lady is still my friend.We just do not see each other anymore,because she moved about 150 miles away from me. Oh,wait a minute!,we did see each other last month at a dance.I had a dance date with another woman.

Now,I did not insinuate that God is playing a sick game on me. If I said that I think that God was playing a game on me,then that would be insinuation. I said that sometimes,I feel. Feelings,although they can be real,are not always logical. Therefore,they should not always be taken seriously. For example,if someone cuts me off on a highway, I may feel like ramming my car into the other driver's car. But,if I do not act on that crazy,illogical feeling,then no harm was done! Was not the story of Job some sort of wager or game netween God and Satan? By the way,Satan lost,and God gave back to Job more than he let Satan take away from Job

FYI,here I do have women friends. Here are two women friends of mine.One lives in Chicago.The other lives in Miami.I spent four days in Ohio with women and men friends.One woman friend had invited us to her 100 acre farm in Ohio. These two lovey ladies are living proof that there are some women who find me desirable.But,they are not from California.Things are so much different here than from the rest of this great country of ours. Yes, we were on a cruise.

God wagering? REALLY?????? Uhm NO NO and NO! SATAN wanted Job. Satan said oh sure Job worships you because you have this hedge of protection around him. Take away the barrier and let's see what he is made of. God already KNEW what Job was made of and how do you know if Job was created JUST so we could read about it and learn from it to trust God? That's right YOU DON'T! I don't see how you think God should bless you when you have the attitude about Him that you do. And yet I know if you were in His presence right now you would not be so loose with your accusations. You would be shuttering in His presence.

 

[dayhiker]

exit .. glad it looks like you two will get together.

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

I'm glad you admitted you were WRONG!!!! lol

 

[exitstageright]

God wagering? REALLY?????? Uhm NO NO and NO! SATAN wanted Job. Satan said oh sure Job worships you because you have this hedge of protection around him. Take away the barrier and let's see what he is made of. God already KNEW what Job was made of and how do you know if Job was created JUST so we could read about it and learn from it to trust God? That's right YOU DON'T! I don't see how you think God should bless you when you have the attitude about Him that you do. And yet I know if you were in His presence right now you would not be so loose with your accusations. You would be shuttering in His presence.

I am not accusing God of anything. In my limited thinking as a human,created by God,this is one way that I can percive the story of Job. Some theologians surmise that Job may not have existed at all. That the story of Job is just a parable. Just like in the Good Samaritian Story. Does it really matter that a man was robbed or not? No,the point of The Good Samaritian story is about one loving and caring for one's neighbor.As a matter of fact,the Storyf Adam and Eve may be a parable.However,even scientist now agree that all Homo sapiens came from the same two parents.

Does it matter if Goliath of Gath was a real person or not? No,the point of this story is to trust God to fight our battles.David probably did not think that Goliath was to big to fight. David probably thought that Goliath was too big to miss!

P.S. God has blessed me in many ways.And he keeps on blessing me. You are the one who are doing the accusations.But,I forgive you.Because ,you being a female,your mind may be influenced by estrogen.

 

[exitstageright]

I'm glad you admitted you were WRONG!!!! lol

I told you that I am different than most men. Just as my dating coach said. She said,"Women want a man,not.....a......Teddy Bear.Therefore,do not be too nice to them. A woman wants you to bring out the SEX KITTEN in her."

Tonight,she told me that most women want their man to pin them against the wall while he is kissing her.

Now Michelle,and ladies,is this fantasy true? If so,that is what I have been doing wrong! I was just not assertive enough to go for what I wanted. Just like in "Gone With The Wind",when the leading man says"Frankly,I don't give a ham!" He then takes her upstairs.
So,I just have to be more assertive,and stop being so mucking nice!

 

[dayhiker]

I love reading you two spar with your totally different senses of humor.

I've never been assertive either, exit. I did go to a meetup that was lead by a dating coach ... he said there are ways to lead that aren't domineering. His example was ask if its OK to sit over there and then when she says yes, but your hand on her back as to lead her the way she agreed to go.

 

[Liberated91]

Matthew 6:33 "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."

How often do you read your bible or pray? Do you place Jesus first in your life? I must admit that i'm learning now that God needs to be number one in my life... i struggle with that but its a process. Its hard for me to read the bible daily and pray daily but I know that it will help me to grow and shape me into the person that God wants me to be. Sometimes you may feel like God doesn't acknowledge your needs but Im learning that we need to seek God and eventually we will receive the desires of our hearts.We need to learn how to be content with being single....Let the lord be enough for us. You have to start thanking the Lord for all the blessings in your life... if this is the only area where you have need then you are BLESSED . Remember God first

 

[Life2Christ]

Exit: I was thinking about you the other day and many of your threads have the same theme. Didn't you say you were married twice? Were you also divorced twice? Do you know how rare it is to find love? You have had love and also married. Some people have had nothing, zilch and they are over 40 years old. You know how God feels about divorce too.

I'm just saying, finding love is extremely difficult and the odds are stacked against us as we get older. You should be glad you had love at one time. I have 5 people in my life that are desperately single and have never had the experience of true love.

I give you all my blessing to find love now so don't think I'm against you. I'm just saying...let's look at the big picture. Look outside yourself once in a while.

 

[blackribbon]

Does it matter if Goliath of Gath was a real person or not?

ABSOLUTELY it matters!!! Either the Bible is COMPLETELY true or else God is not a God of truth and the Bible is not the Word of God.

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

Wow exit you might as well have said the whole bible is a fairy tale geez

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

probably the reason you don't find women that are interested in you is because you are impossible.

On here whenever you answer a post, you act like you have to give a "lesson" in order for little ol me to understand you . Women are not idiots and I don't need an analogy for every answer.

Yeah and what about my estrogen levels? really?

 

[exitstageright]

Matthew 6:33 "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."

How often do you read your bible or pray? Do you place Jesus first in your life? I must admit that i'm learning now that God needs to be number one in my life... i struggle with that but its a process. Its hard for me to read the bible daily and pray daily but I know that it will help me to grow and shape me into the person that God wants me to be. Sometimes you may feel like God doesn't acknowledge your needs but Im learning that we need to seek God and eventually we will receive the desires of our hearts.We need to learn how to be content with being single....Let the lord be enough for us. You have to start thanking the Lord for all the blessings in your life... if this is the only area where you have need then you are BLESSED . Remember God first

I have often thanked God for my blessings. Tonight,I will have my second rehearsal for my church's Drama Ministry. Our Summer musical wil be ;"The Chronicles of Narnia,The Lion,The Witch,and The Wardrobe" C.S. Lewis wrote this christian allegory for children. Making great use of my free time is also a blesssing. When I am acting,I do not have time to feel lonely,because I am subconciously thinking about my lines,lyrics,and blocking. Blocking is knowing where to be on stage during a certain time.
You see? After work, I could just stay home and watch DVD's of" Leave It To Beaver"

By the way,the character,that I will be playing is the bull. I guess Michelle would tell my director that she casted me perfectly. Because,I can be bull-headed at times.

 

[exitstageright]

Exit: I was thinking about you the other day and many of your threads have the same theme. Didn't you say you were married twice? Were you also divorced twice? Do you know how rare it is to find love? You have had love and also married. Some people have had nothing, zilch and they are over 40 years old. You know how God feels about divorce too.

I'm just saying, finding love is extremely difficult and the odds are stacked against us as we get older. You should be glad you had love at one time. I have 5 people in my life that are desperately single and have never had the experience of true love.

I give you all my blessing to find love now so don't think I'm against you. I'm just saying...let's look at the big picture. Look outside yourself once in a while.

Both of my marriges were marriages of convenice.They were just "business arrangements."
They were not full of love. Before I got married for the first time,I had a very high sex drive.After I gotten married,my sex drive dissipated because of too many in-law problems. After I got a divorce,my sex drive returned.
The same thing happened in my second marrige. I know it is not supposed to be this way,but I have had better sex when I was not married.
Now,there are only about two or three women,that I know,that I would enjoy very,very,very much by being physically intimate with,and while being married to her. In some cases,marriage is not all that it is cracked up and hyped up to be. Ideally it should.But,we do not live in an ideal world.