And which faith is not a work of man, but only the gift of the Holy Spirit (Php 1:29, Ac1348, 18;27, 2 Pe 1:1, Ro 12:3),
for we cannot even see the kingdom of God (much less believe in it) apart from the new birth by the Holy Spirit (Jn 3:3-5),
which itself is as sovereign (unaccountable) as the wind (Jn 3:6-8).
Let's take a look at what each of the verses you claim teach that faith (assuming we're talking about saving faith here) "is not a work of man, but only the gift of the Holy Spirit" really mean.
Philippians 1:29 For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him, 30 since you are going through the same struggle you saw I had, and now hear that I still have.
You are taking this verse out of context. This is not saying that faith is given to someone. What this is talking about is being given the
opportunity to not only believe in Him, but also to suffer for Him. It's not saying that anyone automatically believes in Him and suffers for Him as a result of being given the gift of faith and suffering. Gift of suffering? Who has ever heard of such a thing? That can't be what Paul was saying there.
If it means to be given faith by the Holy Spirit then it would also have to mean to be given to suffer for Christ by the Holy Spirit. Is suffering for Christ a gift of the Holy Spirit? Would you try to claim that? I highly doubt it. I've never seen anyone try to claim that suffering is a gift of the Holy Spirit.
Clearly, believing in him and suffering for him should be understood in the same context in terms of who it is that decides whether or not you believe in him and suffer for him. To me, it's very clear that God/Jesus doesn't make anyone suffer for Him and that is a choice that people make. The same must be true in regards to believing in Him or not as well. We are all granted the opportunity to believe in Him and suffer for Him. But, it is up to each of us to choose whether to believe in Him and suffer for Him or not. It might seem strange to see it as an opportunity to suffer for Him when we all tend to want to avoid suffering, but it's a privilege to suffer for Him and it results in great blessings when we do.
1 Peter 3:13 Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? 14 But
even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. “Do not fear their threats; do not be frightened.
Okay, enough about that verse (Phil 1:29). Let's move on to the next one you listed (Acts 13:48). I will add a couple more verses for context.
Acts 13:46 Then Paul and Barnabas answered them boldly: “
We had to speak the word of God to you first. Since you reject it and do not consider yourselves worthy of eternal life, we now turn to the Gentiles. 47 For this is what the Lord has commanded us: “‘I have made you a light for the Gentiles, that you may bring salvation to the ends of the earth." 48 When the Gentiles heard this, they were glad and honored the word of the Lord; and
all who were appointed for eternal life believed.
You should not try to interpret verse 48 without taking verse 46 into account. Context is hugely important and so many people miss the context of scripture. They draw conclusions from single verses without looking at the surrounding context. That is a bad idea.
Verse 46 indicates that the Jews who Paul and Barnabas were speaking the word of God to rejected it on their own volition. It wasn't as though they were not capable of accepting it. I say this because it says "you reject it and do not consider yourselves worthy of eternal life". This places the blame for rejecting the gospel squarely on those Jews. It doesn't say God didn't consider them worthy of eternal life. After all, He sent His Son to die for their sins, so God certainly believed they were worthy of eternal life (John 3:16, 1 John 2:1-2). But, they decided they were not worthy by way of rejecting the offer of eternal life that comes through embracing the gospel message. So, this indicates that the reason for them to not obtain eternal life was not because God didn't want them to have it and didn't give them faith so that they could have it, but rather was because of their own foolish choice to reject God's offer of eternal life.
So, with all that in mind, what does verse 48 mean? Is it saying that the Gentiles believed because they were appointed to eternal life or that all who were appointed to believe did so? Which would imply that they didn't have any choice in the matter but just kind of somehow automatically believed because they were appointed to do so? No, it's not saying that at all. Especially considering that it would contradict what was indicated in verse 46, which is that believing the gospel or not is a choice that people need to make.
So, keeping verse 46 and all of scripture in mind while being careful not to contradict any other scripture instead of interpreting Acts 13:48 in isolation as Calvinists do, what does verse 48 say? It's simply saying what it says. All who were appointed to eternal life believed. Because that's what people who are appointed to eternal life do. They believe. It doesn't say they were appointed to believe. It doesn't say they were appointed for eternal life, so they automatically believed as a result. That's a case of reading something into the text that isn't there. It's simply saying all who were appointed for eternal life believed because that's what those who are appointed to eternal life do. There is no indication there that they were caused or made to believe as if they had no choice in the matter. That doesn't support the context as established in verse 46.
Let's move on to the next verse you listed.
Acts 18:27 When Apollos wanted to go to Achaia, the brothers and sisters encouraged him and wrote to the disciples there to welcome him. When he arrived,
he was a great help to those who by grace had believed.
This verse does not say that saving faith is a gift of the Holy Spirit. You are reading that into the verse. I would hope all of us, whether Calvinists, Arminians or whatever other label you want to reference, believe that no one can believe without God's grace. But, does that mean that God's grace automatically results in faith? Clearly not.
Titus 2:11 For
the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people.
This verse clearly indicates that God's grace is extended to all people, offering salvation to all people. Yet, not all people are saved. Why not? Because God's grace can be resisted and rejected. Calvinism somehow denies that despite verses like this. I don't get it. The only thing you can conclude from verses like this is that people have the free will (free agency, whatever you want to call it) to choose whether to repent and believe or not. Otherwise, there would be universal salvation and none of us here believes in that (I hope).
Okay, let's move on to the next one. This is taking longer than I thought, but I guess I might as well cover all of them.
2 Peter 1:1 Simon Peter, a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ, To those who through the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ have received a faith as precious as ours:
If you've read this far, you won't be surprised to see me say that you are again taking a verse out of context. This verse is not referring to personal saving faith. It is referring to the faith as in the Christian faith as a whole, not one's personal faith in Christ. This is referring to receiving the common blessings of being part of the Christian faith.
Also, scripture just doesn't teach that saving faith is given to us by God, so there's no reason to interpret 2 Peter 1:1 that way. Scripture repeatedly indicates that God wants all people to repent (Acts 17:30, 2 Peter 3:9), all people to be saved (1 Timothy 2:3-6) and that Jesus died for the sins of all people (John 3:16, 1 John 2:1-2). With that in mind, why would only some people have faith and not others if whether someone has faith or not was completely up to God? That would contradict His character in terms of His desire for all people to repent and be saved.
Keeping in mind that God wants all people to repent and be saved the only thing that makes sense as to why not all people do repent and not all people are saved is because God makes everyone responsible to choose whether to repent and believe or not. How can faith be something that is forced or caused without any choice in the matter? What kind of "faith" is that? Scripture says that "without faith it is impossible to please God" (Hebrews 11:6). Why would it please God if someone has faith if they only have faith because God gave it to them? That makes no sense. But, if someone willingly chose to have faith when they could have chosen to not have faith instead, it makes sense that this would please God.
Think about it. Scripture talks about God greeting people in heaven and saying "Well done, though good and faithful servant". If His servants only have faith because God gave it to them, why would God say that to them? Shouldn't He say "Well done, me" instead? I know that seems silly to say, but I'm just making a point and trying to get you to think about what you believe and think about whether it actually makes sense in light of what scripture teaches as a whole.
Okay, let's move on to the last verse you listed. I'll add more verses for context.
Romans 12:3 For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith. 4 For as we have many members in one body, and all members have not the same office: 5 So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and every one members one of another. 6 Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, whether prophecy, let us prophesy according to the proportion of faith; 7 Or ministry, let us wait on our ministering: or he that teacheth, on teaching; 8 Or he that exhorteth, on exhortation: he that giveth, let him do it with simplicity; he that ruleth, with diligence; he that sheweth mercy, with cheerfulness.
Yes, that's right. You have once again taken a verse out of context. Romans 12:3 is not talking about God giving people saving faith in Jesus Christ here. If you read past verse 3, you can see that Paul is talking about spiritual gifts here. Like he does in 1 Corinthians 12, he talks here about each person being given different gifts of the Holy Spirit. Well, gifts of the Holy Spirit are things that manifest AFTER someone has placed their faith and trust in Jesus Christ. So, "the measure of faith" that Paul talks about here cannot possibly be the faith we initially put in Christ upon conversion.
Instead, this is talking about an extra measure of faith that God gives us in order to use the spiritual gifts that He gives us. Notice in verse 6 that it talks about prophesying according to the proportion (or measure) of faith given to do so. This suggests that the measure of faith needed to do that is not the same as the measure of faith needed to use the gift of teaching, for example. When it comes to saving faith, there are not different measures of it. You either believe and trust in Christ or you don't. There's no certain measure of saving faith you need to be saved, so Romans 12:3 cannot possibly be referring to saving faith.