Let me just say that I will not argue definitions or scriptures on this one. This is the second time that I have felt that my family, especially my husband, is being judged. My husband is the most faithful, prayerful, loving man I know. He is completely nonconfrontational in every way. He is truly a turn the other cheek kinda guy. Yet, he is a soldier. To you, that seems like those two things don't go together, but what you don't realize is the mindset of a soldier. They do not fight because they want to. They don't do it for glory or honor or medals or to look tough. They do this out of love. Love for their G-d, thier country, their family, and all of you who don't understand or don't care. My husband believes, as do I, that he is protecting your right to pray, your right to protest, your right to live and breath. If G-d were to look at him and tell him, "hey, you killed someone so you can't get into heaven", his first question would be, "but my wife and kids and family can, right?". He is the definition of selfless service. I cannot believe how many people judge soldiers for what they do. They are usually the ones praying when all others don't. We have Chaplains there to give people their appropriate rituals if they die, to minister to them before, during, and after battle. The medics and Chaplains are also there to help the enemy troops. Please do not judge my husband or any other soldier for what they do. You do not have the right to do that, only G-d does. Is murder right, NO. Is protecting your family and billions of strangers right, YES. That is what my husband does. He protects your right to state that he may go to hell. That he is a murderer. So the next time you decide that his job is wrong, then just remember that he and all the men by his side now, those from the past, and those yet to come are the ones giving you the right to feel that way.