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What do you look for in a girl/guy?

gvsuman

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What do I look for in a girl?? hmmm definately a sense of humor, she has to not smoke, drink, or do any other drugs, be completely devoted to God, and just be really sweet and nice - treating herself and other people really good.

Not really in that particular order though
 
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I wanta girl that will stand up for what she believes, a girl that will tell me just what she thinks, she has to care about other people. She loves God with all that she is and will give him everything, devotes her life to him, doesn't put on a show for everybody else. A girl that will put up with my strangeness and my old-fashion beliefs.


Oh, and good hygene ;)
 
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You guys and gals got some great values! I'm so delighted to see the teens putting the emphasis on the important things - don't lose that. (In other words - don't watch tv and have your impressionable sweet minds filled with all that poison! :))

Having a Godly mate as a husband or wife is critical! Everything else has to build on that relationship with the Lord. Next is finding what's closest to your heart and prizing those traits in the people you'd like to spend your time with, and build relationships with. The "outside stuff" is peripheral and is all icing on the cake, if you get me!

If you trust God to show you the one He has set apart for you, you will save yourselves a ton of headaches and heartbreaks, hopefully!!
 
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I'm not looking, but if I were..............He'd have to be a Christian. He'd have to be honest and have a good sense of humor. I probably wouldn't be attracted to an ugly man, but it's amazing how much more attractive a person becomes once you get to know them, if they are a great person.
 
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Penguin50388 said:
I wanta girl that will stand up for what she believes, a girl that will tell me just what she thinks, she has to care about other people. She loves God with all that she is and will give him everything, devotes her life to him, doesn't put on a show for everybody else. A girl that will put up with my strangeness and my old-fashion beliefs.

Oh, and good hygene ;)

Rock on Brotha man! Looks like I have some competition with the ladies! you just described everything I was trying to think of when I responded to this thread in the first place!
 
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A sence of humor is a definate ( i like funny guys;)), respect for women errr... girls in my case, i don't want a guy that's hooked on drugs and alchohol, and I really would like a Christian guy:). I want someone who is involved in church, that is totally on fire for God and IS walking his talk completely.

*takes a bow and walks off the stage*
 
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