Like I said before, what do Mormons do when there are two contradictory claims being made by people who claim to have the Holy Spirit?
We have the power to get down on our knees and ask for guidance of our own. What I have found is that we can tell who is teaching truth by their contention level, I know that seems strange.
" For verily, verily I say unto you, he that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another." 3 Nephi 11
I was at a political meeting where an issue was being discussed, everyone there in this very small Utah community was Mormon. One man was giving his side of the argument, he was calm and polite. Then another man in the group got up and started pointing his finger and yelling, I thought he would have a stroke right there. I had been on his side but once I saw the contention he had I knew he was in the wrong.
We have in Mormonism an 'I want to be the prophet' syndrome and from time to time someone steps out and claims a special spiritual knowledge above everyone else. That's a good give away, no one can receive revelation for you. Plus we have the power of discernment, we can ask is this leading me to a better relationship with my Savior or is this leading me away from him, am I becoming contentious, is it leading me to break my covenants.
Does the individual Mormon have the freedom to reject what Prophets teach? Let's go beyond Prophets to the local Bishops. Are you in no way to submit yourself to your Mormon leaders?
First point, mmmmm Brigham Young taught a very off the wall theory called the Adam God theory. It was rejected by the vast majority of the Church and he knew it. I think it was John Taylor our third prophet who said, Well he'll have to talk to God about it. We honestly do not believe prophets speak the will of God 100% of the time, only if the Quorum of the First Presidency and then The Quorum of the 12 Apostles are in full agreement does anything become binding on the members.
Second question; You have to understand that we view our leaders differently than other churches, at least I think so. The Bishop is my servant I am not his. Jesus taught this to Peter when he said "feed my sheep". The Bishop has no right to come into my home and tell us how to raise our family and he wouldn't want to. On the other hand if I go to him with a problem then I must be willing to listen and at least consider to submitting to his advice.
If the Bishop calls us in and asks us to take a calling or position in the Church then I am obligated to say yes, if I can do it. I was recently asked to take a calling in the Relief Society and I said yes, even happy to do so because I love to cook and now I get to do it once a month. Once I was asked to take a primary class and I wanted to cry, I told the Bishop I'd been teaching primary since I was 15 and knew the manual by heart. I just wanted to go to an adult Sunday School class and be fed. He said, oh sister that's all right we can find something else for you, how about the cub scouts they meet on Wednesday.
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