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Interesting question.
Although finding a Godly woman is a very good goal but not the most important thing in this life.
This one thing if you found it, it wouldn't matter anymore if you got married or remained single the rest of your life.
Hmmm you say that - but in marriage if somebody is so THIRSTY that when they are not intimate together they do that i mean it demeans the marriage don't ya think?
I’m glad you had a great talk with the pastor. Maybe you should go to the park more often. ;-)
I think it’s important to address this topic when we’re vetting a prospect. It needn’t be crude but honesty is a must. Knowing one another’s appetite and desires are subjects I can’t ignore. I need to make sure we’re on the same page and capable of meeting one another’s needs.
There’s a lot of diversity in Christian circles on this subject. Ranging from monogamy to polygamy and everything in between. I don’t want a surprise. I can limit my surprises by asking questions and listening to his perspective.
I don’t believe in the concept of thirsty. That’s simply someone who isn’t monogamous. It has nothing to do with
lack of intimacy and is directly related to their desire for others. Save those in extenuating circumstances.
You were blessed by the discussion. I think the presence of other godly men will have a similar effect.
But if they don't have control I mean
Indeed!!!If I crane my neck looking to tomorrow I’ll neglect the things I’m meant to learn today. I don’t know what the future holds.
It can’t dominate my thoughts and feelings or attention. I have to stay present and face those issue when they arise.
so outside of marriage there isn't anything you would like to accomplish or achieve?So be at peace.
Hey Daniel, LaBella: Perhaps you all should take this conversation to PM. It's been nothing but you two in this thread for days now. Lol
Well of course my career goals I have and property goal too.so outside of marriage there isn't anything you would like to accomplish or achieve?
Do you consider yourself an Alpha-woman?You’re welcome to chime in as are others. I think male input would be helpful.
I don’t believe in the concept of thirsty. That’s simply someone who isn’t monogamous. It has nothing to do with
lack of intimacy and is directly related to their desire for others. Save those in extenuating circumstances.
People sure do change............that's why I don't trust anybody now - trust myself.People change. We all change. This is why patience is a virtue when finding the right partner for us.
Rather trust myself than have all my trust in somebody else.The heart is deceitful above all....Trust no one, including yourself!
Bologna. Says the unregenerate person or the redeemed? Take that verse in context. KthnxThe heart is deceitful above all....Trust no one, including yourself!
Well of course my career goals I have and property goal too.
Anyway I am just whatever right now
Do you consider yourself an Alpha-woman?
I used to think that polygamy is okay but not anymore (not that I actually engaged in it, I'm still a virgin).
Eventually, I realized when people don't find contentment in one partner, it's simply because they married the wrong person (lacked the patience, understanding, maturity, and determination to find the right person for them).
I know this for sure....Women I don't find attractive several years ago, I now find attractive (overall attributes). People change. We all change. This is why patience is a virtue when finding the right partner for us.
a man simply chooses a woman to make the beneficiary of what he has built. when a man is doing what a man is suppose to do, the women come to him. women throw themselves at a progressive man of means, ambition, goals, and accomplishments(there's a difference between a gold-digger and an economically sensible woman). he really doesn't have to work that hard and will get top choice women.
Obviously you don't go blindly into any relationship. The point was this is the type of man that the top choice of women are going to make themselves available for.Discerning women and those with means never throw themselves at anyone. It lowers you.
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