No. Its not them we are forgiving but asking for God to forgive the act itself. Okay, this post is going to be long so I ask you to put up with me.
The act is the sin.
To ask God to forgive the act is to ask God to forgive the sin.
And in fact, God does not forgive acts. . He forgives people.
Forgiveness is about forgiving people. . not disimbodied acts.
If that person is dead there can be no forgiveness of their sins, of their actions if it was not granted in life.
This is where the tire meets the road bene. . . . . one can spin doctor it all they want, but they cannot change this simple fact.
To teach that God forgives the sins of our ancestors after death is heresy.
and you are saying that I am defending this, no I'm not. I'm just presenting it for consideration.
what I am defending is you to not misrepresent the premise. If you are going to object to it, fine but object to what the premise actually is.
I have not misrespresnted the premise. I have gotten the premise straight from the author.
I have presented the prayer the author gives us to pray.
I have demonstrated where he clearly would have us pray for what the Church tells us we are not to believe.
No one said we forgive the family member. This is like the 3rd time I'm making this clear.
I am not saying you said this.
I am saying THIS is our responsiblity D'Ann has said this is our reponsiblity. . . THIS is what we are to do . . not pray that God forgives our ancestors their sin as this author would have us do.
We are to forgive others as we are forgiven. That of course does not mean that we forgive in God's stead, but that we free ourselves of unforgiveness in our own hearts. When we hold unforgiveness in our hearts, we give satan a foothold. So we must forgive others.
We ask God that the sin, the act, the event in time that gave the enemy power, to be forgiven, have mercy on, removed, what ever words you want to use, to "break the curse", what ever words you want to use. We ask God to allow us to take back the ground that was given to him.
There is
NO basis for doing this in Catholic teaching.
NONE.
Forgiveness is given to people bene .. people .. .
PEOPLE are forgiven their sinful acts. . .
acts are not forgiven apart from forgiving the people who did them.
as you say, no one has power but God in this. It's He who says if Satan will attack or if he won't and how far he can go.
that is what we would do, ask to God to take back the ground that was freely given to Satan that God allowed Satan to take. When we give Satan ground in our lives, the effects are far reaching.
That
DOES NOT include praying that God will do something
CONTRARY TO HIS DIVINELY REVEALED TRUTH.
It is contrary to His divinely revealed truth to pray that our ancestors be forgiven their sins.
That is where the tire meets the road for this strange doctrine.
This strange doctrine teaches us to do something
CONTRARY TO Divinely Revealed Truth
Nothing about this is forgiving anyone sins or forgiving any dead person of their sins.
Maybe to you bene .. but not to the author.
The author clearly would have us pray for God to forgive our ancestors their sins.
The words of the prayer are unambiguous. If you wish to spin them to somthing else, that is your choice. But when someone spins a false teaching to make it palatabl, it will only mislead others as to what this author teaches. His words are clearly and unambiguously stated.
I don't see a need to respond to everything in your post as you have mixed the teaching of this author with other issues. I am simply focusing on this book and teaching you have recommended to others several times in this thread.
You are misrepresenting the teaching of this author .. .