I have never been SO happy to be single in my entire life! Oh, gosh.... if I ever get into any relationship I pray it's NOTHING like my sisters!!!!
I'm so angry at the way my sisters boyfriend for treating her SO poorly. At the same time I don't know who's to blame.
On one hand you have my sister who has the need to want to BUY everything her boyfriend wants to make him happy. And my parents are upset because she doesn't help out her own family. On the other hand you have my sister's cheap boyfriend who has a FULL TIME, well paying job and he's always borrowing money from my sister when she only has a part-time job.
I've come to a point where I don't know if I'm being closed-minded and old school, or if that's just the way relationships are. If so, I don't want one. My sister has changed SO much that it scares me. Sure some change is good, but I don't think this change was.
Are my parents being unfair? Is she right in saying she's old enough to do what she wants even if she still lives under my parents roof? It's all so confusing.
I mean... is it all right for my sister's boyfriend to say "we'll get together later, if not I'll call you." and then he doesn't? I don't think that's right. Maybe if it happens once, but he does this ALL the time. It makes me angry.... I don't think he knows how great of a woman he has. Well... now he has her sooooo hooked all she cares about is him sometimes.
And then there are times I wonder if she still likes him. Because there is this guy at her work that treats her so nicely... she doesn't like him though. But I'm thinking it's opened her eyes to how men should treat women.
My sister is SUCH a loving person. She's the kind of girl that LOVES to cuddle. He hates it. He won't sit next to her in church. All though I thought it was pretty nosy, my youth leader even came up to me and asked me if they had broken up because he doesn't sit next to her. He wont' hug her in public, or hold her hand.... Nothing.
I know that
has to bother my sister because that's not who she is. She's the kind of girl who would even hold her best friends hand in public because she loves to show the world how much she cares about her friends.
They've been together for almost 3 years... they've been talking about getting married. But instead of saving money for the wedding... they buy guns.
I don't think I'd want to disappoint my parents the way my sister is. My dad has said some pretty harsh things about how my sister has changed because of her boyfired, and I don't think I could take that.
There's too much pressure. They're always telling me to learn from her mistakes... but I know I'll probably make mistakes anyway. Everyone does... I just don't know.
Honestly, I'm confused about their entire relationship. I'm confused about relationships in general, actually. So her relationship has twisted my idea of relationships. GAH!
Again, yay for singleness!