You know, Sir Barrd, for a long time I worried that God was exactly like the one that cultish and hateful-sounding people like Westboro church members believed in, that they were somehow the ones in the right, with "the truth" and all on their side, but after some times spent dealing with my sickness (which I believe was scrupulosity, sometimes called "the doubting disease") that caused me to worry about things like this, I finally managed to come to the conclusion that, you know what? Who cares? They could be right, and then again they could not, and the Bible has enough support to make God out to be entirely different than the TULIP Calvinist kind of one who, as I remember one of the Phelps' family members saying on camera, created us all just to damn and torture most of us for eternity, and there was literally nothing we could do about it, because Jesus came to save literally only a distinct few, so that the few could praise Him for liking them enough to save them and glorying in the eternal torment of the rest because they believe it is also His glory to doom them to something like that.
And finally I managed to just settle everything this way: you know what? If it's somehow true, there's nothing I could have done about it anyway. This would mean that what I believed to be the Holy Spirit to be guiding me in my heart all this time was a lie and a deception that God predestined me to because He created me to hate me. And again, this kind of God is fatalsitic, so what could I have done or do to change it? I might as well go on living and thinking He is better than that, because if it is wrong, I was literally predestined to it, so I am in fact doing His will, if His will is indeed to hate and throw most of humanity into hell, as the people of Westboro and some other extremists like that believe (not all Calvinists, mind you; just the ones who take the theology to the extreme). And guess what? There's more than enough evidence in the Bible and in my conscience to indicate that He is in fact not like that at all. And I might as well go on hoping and believing in it. Again, if it isn't the Holy Spirit in my conscience but some deceiving demon, then I suppose that whole thing with testing the spirits in 1 John 4 wasn't meant to be taken at face value, and that somehow demons can actually acknowledge Jesus Christ as having come in the flesh to save us, after all. Wouldn't make much sense, though, seeing as verse 2 there straight up says any spirit that acknowledges this is from God, and any spirit that does not is not from God.
Honestly, if universal reconciliation turns out to be true, I totally admit I will take some pleasure in seeing haters like Westboro look on helplessly as those whom they were so eager to insult and condemn enter the Kingdom of Heaven before themselves, sputtering and pouting in disbelief that they ended up being wrong: "B - B - But, ... Gooooood! What about the hellfire and worms gnawing at those wretched homosexuals alive as they scream and lament forever and ever while we get to watch and point with glee?"
And then Jesus would probably turn to them and be like, "What, seriously? What's the matter with you guys? You might need some rehabilitation in that lake of fire over there."
But hey, at least there I am saying that, as much as I dislike the people of Westboro, I still wouldn't wish for eternal torment to befall them. Of course I wouldn't. I wouldn't even wish it on my worst enemy, ... or Hitler, seeing as he is the most famous subject to decide the ultimate fate on in discussions of UR vs. ECT vs. annihilationism. Hey, everybody wants justice (their version of it) for everyone
else who did bad stuff in their life, but themselves. Let's be honest with ourselves, guys. Nearly all of us are consistently like that or have experienced a moment or two of such glaring pride in ourselves. And some people can come up with all the verses they want to try to justify their judgments all for the sake of finger-pointing upon others, but the fact of the matter remains that self-righteous BS was exactly the kind of thing that Jesus constantly got onto the Pharisees for in His time. He most certainly did
admonish the adulterous woman to go and sin no more, but I totally don't remember Him ever getting up in the faces of she and other sinners like her. Just the guys who were obviously do-gooders only for show.
Sorry, kind of went off on a lot of aimless tangents there. But I think I've always been kind of obsessive-compulsive like that.