Undressing in front of husband....

[Lordbay]

I watch my hubby and he watches me. It keeps the fire burning.
Yeah,that's the phrase!!!

You can say that again!!!

 

[Just Me Garry]

Myself and my wife do not have any problem with undressing in front of each other. We feel perfectly normal about.

When The Lord created man and man was naked, he wanted man to have an open fellowship with each other and the Lord himself.

There is nothing to be ashamed about. It is just normal for us.

 

[Redguard]

I enjoy watching. I start playing some funky 70's music in my head while I watch.

And I'm comfortable doing it as well.

 

[Flipper]

No Sir Mix-A-Lot?


With my husband and I, if it's just us, and we aren't cold, clothing is way too overrated. We both know we are fat - why hide it.

 

[Redguard]

No Sir Mix-A-Lot?

I think I'll use that song tonight when she gets home from work.

 

[Evie]

yep,they were not ashamed,and neither should we,no matter how big or little in size you are!!

Myself and my wife do not have any problem with undressing in front of each other. We feel perfectly normal about.

When The Lord created man and man was naked, he wanted man to have an open fellowship with each other and the Lord himself.

There is nothing to be ashamed about. It is just normal for us.

 

[Yitzchak]

Acheiving intimacy is a process. As the two of you work on being closer in all areas then it won't feel so weird.

 

[Hooch]

It started that way for me and my wife.. now 5 years on the bathroom doors stay open whilst we do our business....

It takes time..

 

[Melbelle]

Well, yes I feel ashamed because I think my husband deserves a skinner wife sometimes. But I'm working on that, and I find that he loves every inch of me weather I'm fat or skinny or just right. I gave birth to his son and he has seen me at my worst so I try not to worry about that and just move on.

 

[Redguard]

Are you saying that skinny are "worth more" that curvy women?

 

[Zoomer]

The human body is a beautiful thing, so no I am not ashamed. Even after gaining 50 lb, I still feel sexy. I think it's all in the way you see yourself. If you think you are sexy, then others will see you as sexy because you will carry yourself with confidence. I want to weigh less but as long as I am big, I am going to be big and beautiful.

 

[Melbelle]

Are you saying that skinny are "worth more" that curvy women?

No but my husband always tells me how he loved the way I was before I had Seth, and never lets me forget that I'm a little over waight, yeah yeah yeah lots of people tell me "What a jerk" maybe he is or maybe he just is telling me the truth, I know I"m a lil over waight, and I'm working on it, I don't wanna look like I do right now. My husband never lets me forget that he has always pictured himself married to a "Skinny" woman, you know them gorgous supper model type yeah lol...

 

[EmSchmem]

I am naked in front of my husband so much that I'm a bit suprised he's not bored by it. But he seems to like me naked, prgnant and all. and he DOES sing sir mix a lot at my nakedness.

 

[searle29678]

We are completely comfortable with each other nude, partially nude, whatever. If I need to get my clothes off of the ironing board in the living room and I have to walk naked from the bathroom to get them, so be it. He feels the same way. At first this sort of thing bothered me. "Oh my gosh, I have that problem here. What if he thinks that isn't normal? What if that/those are too big/small?" Then I realized, I'm married to this man hopefully for the rest of my life, do I really want to spend the majority of that time hiding something from him that he obviously enjoys seeing a lot of? So I figured whatever my reservations are about exposing my naked self, he obviously doesn't have the same ones and thinks I'm gorgeous. Once I let go of the inhibitions a little bit, it actually improved my self esteem. It's a win-win situation.

 

[revrobor]

i don't have a problem with doing it in front of my boyfriend

If you are serious you should have a problem with it because he has no right to see you naked until you have both made a Biblical, life-long commitment.

 

[searle29678]

I dont' know if this poster did or did not mean to cause a fuss with this statement, but maybe we could start another thread about the biblically correct way to handle that situation.

 

[Hooch]

No but my husband always tells me how he loved the way I was before I had Seth, and never lets me forget that I'm a little over waight, yeah yeah yeah lots of people tell me "What a jerk" maybe he is or maybe he just is telling me the truth, I know I"m a lil over waight, and I'm working on it, I don't wanna look like I do right now. My husband never lets me forget that he has always pictured himself married to a "Skinny" woman, you know them gorgous supper model type yeah lol...

Perhaps he is worried for your health. Next to smoking (and perhaps even on par with it)- weight is the most preventable cause of a variety of diseases.

You can always return the favor.

 

[Yitzchak]

I think that God gives us one or two issues to work on at a time. Not everything that is wrong with us all at once. Losing weight can be a worthy goal but I don't think that God wants us to force the issue. Losing weight should be a joyful thing that you want to do , not a burden that puts you under shame and pressure. Perhaps the timing or method of encouragement about losing weight is not ideal. We can easially get into striivng about issues besides weight loss in our Christian walk. God loves us as we are with all our imperfections and will help us change at a pace that builds us on the inside at the same time as the outside habits.

 

[childofgod1711]

ive never had a problem with it, just wondering how do u have sex with your husband but your not comfortable undressing infont of him??

 

[bliz]

I am more than a little overweight... and all I hear from my husband is how much he loves my body, every bit of it! He loves looking at it, feeling it...

The impact on me? It encourages me to lose weight and to take better care of myself. If he were critical of my body or tell me how much more he'd like it if I were thinner, I would almost certainly hole up and eat ice cream and chocolate, hate my body and therefore not want him to see me naked or put his hands all over it.