Undressing in front of husband....

[jd032700]

I go through phases. My husband and I are for the most part pretty comfortable in the nude. We stay mostly clothed around the house, but will sleep nude occasionally. I used to run around in just my t-shirt and underwear but don't much anymore. I don't really know why I stopped. The only place we are uncomfortable is in the bathroom. I hear that some couples never get over this. I think that I could get past it if encouraged too, but he has no desire to. I guess that's not really a big deal. Long story short, we are pretty comfortable with nudity. One way or the other, it's just not really a big deal to us.

 

[Lordbay]

I was very heavy when we got married and it very hard to get naked at first, but she told me she loved me and my nakedness went away. Now, I have lost alot of pounds and I have alot of hanging skin. I have lost over 150lbs. I don't thinks she care because I am so much more healthy now. It is just sometimes, it is so hard for me to look at it, but too have all the hanging skin is a blessing from God!!

 

[ysl_75]

I do have sometimes of this feeling but most of the time I feel its alright because we are together for so many years..

 

[Melbelle]

Perhaps he is worried for your health. Next to smoking (and perhaps even on par with it)- weight is the most preventable cause of a variety of diseases.

You can always return the favor.

Being a few pounds over weight from just having a baby I doubt thats the case. After he found out I was on a diet and cutting a joke "Hunny you may wanna get out of the truck first" my reply "Why" his reply "Because the truck may tilt if you don't". is that being rude or worrieing about my weight?

 

[Redguard]

sethsmommy,

You don't need anyone here to tell you that he's being mean and unreasonable. That's a given.

Further, he shouldn't be one to talk. At 6'4" and 150lbs, he's literally a javelin. He should be having just as many insecurities as a woman who considers herself overweight.

There's a devil sitting on my left shoulder as I type this, and he's whispering in my ear for you to call him Skeletor, but we both know better, right?

 

[Melbelle]

Lol Red, I have said many mean things back I'm sure of it lol, though its not right, I'm not miss goody goody lol.. But it does make me feel uncomfortable for him to see me nakid.

 

[~Mrs. A2J~]

Well my husband supports the Ferengi philosophy of their women always being naked so I rarely undress in front of him as there are no clothes to take off

 

[Redguard]

Three cheers for the Ferengi's!!

Now for some Ferengi Rules of Acquisition that seem fitting for this discussion.

Rule #4 - A woman wearing clothes is like a man in the kitchen.
Rule #31 - Never make fun of a Ferengi's mother. Insult something he cares about, instead.
Rule #139 - Wives serve, brothers inherit.
Rule #255 - A wife is a luxury... a smart accountant, a necessity.

 

[LynnMcG]

What a great thread! I've got Sir Mix a Lot running through my head thank you!

No, not a problem undressing or dressing in front of my husband. I think it's sweet that he stops what he's doing to watch me. No matter what my shape - before babies, during babies, after babies - he loves me, ALL of me. God blessed me with a good man.

 

[yeshuaskid]

Ever since I had my daughter, I've felt ugly. My husband is still turned on by my naked body even though I need to lose a few pounds.

 

[Redguard]

In many cases, women are harder on themselves than their spouses are.