Hi Asaph, I will need to express a part of my own beliefs so that you know where I stand...
I believe in a God that fulfils the following attributes:
1. He created existence
2. He is a benign, loving God
3. He cannot change or act randomly, childishly: although we cannot contain him in our paradigms, He cannot negate himself and therefore we can expect a certain pattern in his action
I also believe that the Bible understood as the literal word of God, or the Bible understood as the inspired word of God, fails to show a God who is coherent to Himself.
My conception of the Bible is the following: a group of people that lived in different periods of History, and in different social and religious paradigms, wrote about God. Some of that people were very open minded, while some others were very xenophobic and / or racist. Thats why you dont get a one size fits all Bible, but an extremely complex collection of books, some of them even contradictory to others. Thats why Ive never accepted the old system of proving ones ideas with quotes of the Bible, since you could prove absolutely everything you believed.
Now, since I do not believe in a random God, and I am convinced about his inherent love, I consider that there are some areas of the Bible that are absolutely against this vision of God. For example, I dont believe that a loving God told his chosen people to slaughter all the children in the conquered villages. To me, that is an abomination, and therefore, God never commanded it. On the contrary, my personal opinion is that some of the writers of the Old Testament assumed that since they won the Battles, God sanctioned them (a bit like the theology of prosperity that flourishes in lots of congregations in the US, UK and part of South America). Once they made that assumption (we won, so God is by our side), it was easy to dramatize the whole historic chapter.
This could bring the issue of the validity of the Bible: well, I believe God to be far more complex than what is expressed in the Bible. I cannot believe that such a wonderful being can be contained in the pages of a book. However, since some of the people who wrote the Bible did truly understood the God all-loving, creator, universal as opposed to the God revengeful, limited to Israel, there are parts in the Bible that are valid, and those are the ones who show an loving God ready to forgive and craving for a better world, here and now.
Anyways, I know that this sounds extremely heretic, but this is my opinion!
Again, cool to read your points!