This is so interesting Thankyou Katerinah I see you have answered Armoured? I cannot see the post I blocked one earlier on with profile of a sick Trump - it might be him.
I think it is good to discuss it and hear everyone's input on the subject especially as it's all about to happen. They have scheduled very much stronger collisions in 2025 I don't know if we'll be around that long the way the world is going
Hi,
Really do please try to understand his truth through sarcasm. He really is spot-on. I sense the soldier in him, but I sense also an incredible adherance to what is right and what is just.
This might help.
One day, at work, a guy walks up to me. It is the biker dude, with tatoos, a scragly beard, who has been in many a fight, including trying out for tough man in the ring. He and I like each other, but most people are just totally afraid of him. And, they are surprised by all those external features about me, matching in any way this man, that could possibly explain my lack of fear, and like for this guy.
He sits down next to me at in the office. I am doing something. He talks. "Why are you always so upset with us? Is it because we are huring your feelings?" YES. Yes I said, and he left and went away. Of course this rude crude mean set of ex-military guys working with me the rather delicate and erudite egg head intellectual who is thrown into the fray as an engineer amonst the working class folks, is hurt constantly by what those men were saying to me. How could they ask me such a question.
Two weeks later, he sit down again, and in the same place. He starts to talk. "When I call you a Slacker, it is because you are not. That man over there, I would never call a slacker." I looked, and he is actually our Resident Narcissist with all of those features resident in Narcissists of which laziness is rampant. (I would diagnose him later, as that was a side issue, and researchers research all things. Apparently and I got this out of him, his Psychiatrist in the Miitary that gave him a deferment for being depressed backed up my diagnosis from his symptoms alone to me, of Narcissism. When I approached and tested that theory, he admitted that he is diagnose Narcissist and then retracted it, out of not really wanting anyone to know that, which is also typical for them. It comes primarily from a horrible horrible childhood, sufficient to cause the brain to be damaged or not form normally.)
I started to understand. He then talked some more: "What we would like to do with you, is get you to the point, that no matter what we say to you, you don't react even if it hurts. In the mean time, we will pick on you for all the things in your life that upset you. When you get to the point that you no longer get upset, we will stop. And, we will also let you know each time you fail to do that. The best of us is Scott."
I looked back, and it's the ex Air Force guy. He is looking at me and he starts to talk. "Yes, even if it hurts, I do not react."
Let me tell you what that is good for, but first I want to tell you, that took 8 1/2 years for me to be as good as Scott, by getting through his stuff also and his ways. Now the good part.
Eventually and all people who are trained nicely this way, a problem came up, but for someone else. It was my daughter and her son in law. They were being hassled, by several people and were besides themselves. Construction done improperly by some family members was also the issue, along with the family members. The neighbors werer a horror. The management of the condos was a horror.
I asked if I could help. They said yes. I did apply for and get all requirements for Oregon's General Contractors license finished, and I am familiar with construction, but my first customer was such a horror that I decided I did not want to work in that field, if I had to deal with people like that, so I never applied for my bond.
Anyway, it worked and they all said to me: "How did you do that?" They said that with an open mouth, a mouth agape. Part of the reason, is the number of battles that I have been in, and that mental hardening, those ex military guys graced me with. Yes, God did much also, and may have really done all of it, and just let me think that I did all the work. In any event, I was the tool, and I was well trained.
Arnoured I think is like me, in the experienced warrior class of people. If you can give him a chance, as with that humor, in very few words he says much, and is out of line only occasionally with people like me, but.
But, he is dealing with people who are not like me, and he can do things that I don't think I can do. Do you remember with that debt in the Bible, the man Jesus talked about in Parable form, how people in this world are great at handling people in this world, and so much so that Jesus commented about that?
Arnoured, seems to be perfect Religiously in fairness and accuracy and intent.
LOVE,