The World According....To Playboy?

[Steezie]

Showing sex without love and in the marriage bed is exploitation...its selfish because it teaches the wrong idea about sex

Not necessarily so. You place an unreasonable burden on sex like its some holy ritual that CANNOT ever be used except in love.

Ill agree that love makes it better, but I dont see how its wrong to have sex without love. Its an incredibly intimate act that makes you feel cared for and connected.

 

[LovesEnduringPromise]

What? The only sex tips we need are ones that conform to what God would have us do. That means avoiding any other person to enter our marriage...real or imaginary

 

[LovesEnduringPromise]

Sex without love is more animalistic. Thats not how God intended it to be, thats why he created love to associate with sex.

 

[Bianca87]

Showing sex without love and in the marriage bed is exploitation...its selfish because it teaches the wrong idea about sex

how's showing something you don't agree with wrong itself? can't you watch stuff from someonelse prospective sometimes?

 

[PassionFruit]

For the record, Playboy doesn't really show sex. It mainly shows full frontal nudity, you won't find hardcore sex in Playboy.

 

[Steezie]

Sex without love is more animalistic. Thats not how God intended it to be, thats why he created love to associate with sex.

Then why doesnt love ALWAYS associate with sex? If it was designed that way...

And why does the emotional benefits also come from sex PERIOD regardless of love?

And we technically ARE animals

 

[Boomygrrl]

I am totally against censorship, so let Playboy live.
However, I do find it sexist. Looking at it from a woman's point of view, we're portrayed as zoo animals to be stared at. Women are airbrushed and it just seems so superficial and demeaning.
However, I can understand the appeal from the heterosexual man's point of view.
I have no problem with sexuality, and there's nothing wrong with sex that is "animalistic."

I just wonder how many naive guys think that this is what sex is all about...having extremely high standards on female beauty and low standards of female intelligence.

Sex, Drugs, and Rock-n-roll...woo hoo...ah, forget the drugs...sex and rock and roll...woo hoo.


Boomygrrl

 

[LovesEnduringPromise]

Then why doesnt love ALWAYS associate with sex? If it was designed that way...

And why does the emotional benefits also come from sex PERIOD regardless of love?

And we technically ARE animals

Sex is associated with love. In marriage man and woman engage in sex to show their love for one another in a sexual way

 

[LovesEnduringPromise]

Without sex in a marriage, like if a woman deprives her husband, there are usually problems

 

[PassionFruit]

Without sex in a marriage, like if a woman deprives her husband, there are usually problems

What? Hold on a sec? A "woman depriving her husband?" Are suggesting that it's the woman's and only the woman's job to pleasure her husband, and not the other way around. Because darling women have needs too.

 

[Saeph]

Showing sex without love and in the marriage bed is exploitation...its selfish because it teaches the wrong idea about sex

It doesn't really "teach" that, it just shows the men who buy it what they want to see. And, to be honest, I think (no, it's even rather a fact than a belief) about 90 % of all men have watched at least one porn or bought one issue of the Playboy in their life.

Cosmo = sex-tips for secretaries

Playboy = sex-tips for secretaries' bosses

That's a cool definition!

 

[Steezie]

Sex is associated with love. In marriage man and woman engage in sex to show their love for one another in a sexual way

Again, why are you assuming that sex and love MUST go together

 

[OdwinOddball]

Without sex in a marriage, like if a woman deprives her husband, there are usually problems

Hmm, what if the man deprives the woman? If I deprived my girlfriend of sex for too long, I think she'd tie me to a bed and force me.

 

[Bianca87]

Hmm, what if the man deprives the woman? If I deprived my girlfriend of sex for too long, I think she'd tie me to a bed and force me.

thank's for sharing this...
the man hardly will want to deprive the woman, it usually doesn't happen, maybe because they need to "empty" themselves...

 

[LovesEnduringPromise]

It doesn't really "teach" that, it just shows the men who buy it what they want to see. And, to be honest, I think (no, it's even rather a fact than a belief) about 90 % of all men have watched at least one porn or bought one issue of the Playboy in their life.





That's a cool definition!

It does teach it, whether or not you see it. It teaches us that sex is like that....that its superficial....that mostly all women/men in porn should look that way

 

[LovesEnduringPromise]

Again, why are you assuming that sex and love MUST go together

Because sex is our expression of our love for one another....in marriage.

 

[Steezie]

Because sex is our expression of our love for one another....in marriage.

You make a LOT of assumptions.

Why can sex not be a way to simply be physically close with annother human being? In this age of connection, most people have lost the inherant ability to do something as simple as be close to annother person. We dont think of touch as important, but it goes a long way psychologically.

Why can it not be fun? Why can it not be for pleasure?

 

[RavenPoe]

Hmm, what if the man deprives the woman? If I deprived my girlfriend of sex for too long, I think she'd tie me to a bed and force me.

ROFL.

I think my boyfriend can relate to that one.

As someone who constantly struggles with poor body image, I found it hard to be cool with a boyfriend who reads Playboy, feeling like I'd be compared to the images within, but once I learned more about the whole "Hef lifestyle" and all, I grew okay with it. It's like James Bond with bunnies.

 

[RealityCheck]

ROFL.

I think my boyfriend can relate to that one.

As someone who constantly struggles with poor body image, I found it hard to be cool with a boyfriend who reads Playboy, feeling like I'd be compared to the images within, but once I learned more about the whole "Hef lifestyle" and all, I grew okay with it. It's like James Bond with bunnies.

LOL

Playboy markets fantasy, and just about every adult reader knows that. And nearly every adult reader is able to separate "fantasy" from "reality."

Those that usually CAN'T make the separation haven't passed their 21st birthday yet.

 

[RealityCheck]

Because sex is our expression of our love for one another....in marriage.

How do we then express our love for one another prior to marriage? Or do we enter into marriage without ever expressing love beforehand?