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Good question.
You believe God doesn't talk to you?
After reading your posts - old ones and new ones, I discovered some hints.
Do you want to know??
Hmm…. Sounds a bit judgmental.

If that was your intention in your post, to judge me, then you are in no place to because you are not perfect either.
 
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Hmm…. Sounds a bit judgmental.

If that was your intention in your post, to judge me, then you are in no place to because you are not perfect either.
No, no, don't misunderstand.
That's not my intention, I am not fit to judge you. Why do you think so?
 
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No, no, don't misunderstand.
That's not my intention, I am not fit to judge you. Why do you think so?
Okay I am sorry. I thought you were. I was wrong. [Hugs] :hug::hug::hug::hug::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

What did you actually mean?
 
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Okay I am sorry. I thought you were. I was wrong. [Hugs] :hug::hug::hug::hug::cookie::cookie::custard::custard:

What did you actually mean?
My words carry no judgement at all, I said I discovered some hints, just hints , not facts. I just want to say some of the materials you shared might not be pleasing to God.
 
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My words carry no judgement at all, I said I discovered some hints, just hints , not facts. I just want to say some of the materials you shared might not be pleasing to God.
Which materials do you mean?
 
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I want to know why He doesn’t talk to me or many other Humans He made.

I wish God talked to me more. I would like a dialogue with him. I can't tell you how many times I've asked Him to tell me one thing about my future husband.

The woman that wrote "Jesus Calling", she desired dialogue with God, instead of a monologue.


I have no idea who God is and I have no idea who Satan is.

All I know is God made me and Satan seems to hate me.

We can know God through the Bible. Observe His characteristics and actions.

Satan hates anyone that stands by God. He has hated me a long time.
 
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I wish God talked to me more. I would like a dialogue with him. I can't tell you how many times I've asked Him to tell me one thing about my future husband.

The woman that wrote "Jesus Calling", she desired dialogue with God, instead of a monologue.

In my experience He does but if the lone time you converse is prayer that isn’t much of a connection. People will text their friends throughout the day or share a moment just because. But few do the same with God. If you want more of Him you have to be more inclusive and fill your day with His presence. That’s what Brother Lawrence alludes to in his book. We can experience His presence constantly.

As for your future spouse pray for him from head to toe and do it as a service on a daily basis. I’m not suggesting it’s wrong to ask but there’s things you can do in this season in preparation which usually provide the answers you want. I think it’s more important to know your mission beforehand. That’s what narrows the pool beyond what appeals. If he doesn’t support what you’re doing for the Lord the rest is moot.

But when you know what He wants you can assess what’s lacking and ask for that in response. Someone with specific qualities related to your assignment that will help you accomplish it who needs the same from you in turn. That’s how I address the topic spiritually and I don’t mention men or marriage anymore. He brings it up and fills in the blanks.

~bella
 
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